How to make her feel Owned
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 The feeling of being owned is one of the most secure and desired feelings a Sub can have. She wants to be reminded at all times that you are in control of her and that she is safe and watched over under your command. She *wants* you to be strong for her, so she can grow under your care and guidance. Think for a moment of the potential your relationship with a woman who loves and trusts you so much that she wants to be *owned* by you… What closer bond can you have?
 There are many ways to make her feel that she belongs to you and I will share with you some of my favorites. Ask her often, “Who do you belong to?” Not only does this strengthen the depth of your relationship but many women have told me it is very erotic for them to be told to touch and name different parts of their body and then tell you it belongs to you.
 
Here’s a quote that will make this clearer: “Personally I *love* it when various parts of my anatomy are called upon. For example, during a spanking, I like to be reminded that this is Master’s bottom and he can do as he wishes with it.”
 
How you address each other can also be confirmation of your roles. For example, calling her by a pet name can indicate your position of authority while requiring her refer to you with some title of respect such as Sir or Master further emphasizes her submission. Being “owned” is a total experience. It means she is subject to your whims at any time and no reason is necessary beyond the fact it is something you want. For her, there is great excitement and anticipation in being used for your pleasure and never knowing what your next command or task may be. She may be fully clothed and busy one moment and naked and kneeling before you the next….

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   I need to feel safe. Before I can begin to open my submissive nature to You I need to feel safe and have reason to trust You. To let down my walls and give You control of my will may take time and testing before I feel safe enough to permit either of us to go beyond the initial stages of our relationship. Even after I’ve given myself to You fully, I need to be reminded I am safe with You. I may like to feel the thrill and excitement of fear and the unknown, but I need to be sure no matter how You stimulate those emotions during an intense scene or situation, I will remain safe in Your care

   Submission is not about sex. Submission is not something one can learn. It is not dirty. Submission is a beauty that comes from the very soul of a submissive woman. It is breaking down walls built up in her lifetime, allowing the beautiful, sensual woman to come through. Submission is about sensuality. It is about trust, communication, vulnerability, caring, and honesty. Submission is about knowing who you are and what you want. A submissive is not a weak person but just the opposite. She is strong in herself and in the knowledge of who she is. She never submits out of weakness or desperation. She submits out of strength, love, and trust. Submission is freedom. It is letting go of one's self, knowing that the Dominant is there to catch her if she falters. It is about pushing to be the very best one can be, not only as a submissive, but as a woman. Submission can actually engender power: realizing that you have something to give and that you are capable of mastering your own will to give it up the way it is wanted instead of the way you think it should be wanted. It can inspire pride, not the false pride of an inflated ego but the true pride that, like humility, comes from knowing the depths of yourself.

    Submission is about being of use. Submission is not about what is done to you, Submission is about what you do for others. Strong men simply need women. This will never be understood by weak men. A strong man needs a woman at his feet, who is truly His. Anything else is less than His fulfillment.