I've identified as submissive since early 2010. I have little actual experience. I'm seeking a Dominant life partner whose presence makes me want to submit. I am a strong and independent woman. I need a man who is stronger.
I am not looking to serve a couple, nor am I looking for 24/7 TPE. I believe that there are no hard and fast rules for what a D/s couple looks like. Each couple is different and must find their own balance. There are things I want to explore, things I love, and things that terrify me. I want my boundaries and limits pushed, within reason.
In the end, I want to find the one man I am meant to serve and to love. Just to clarify: I know this site is full of people searching for "sexual friendships." I am not that girl. Nor am I seeking to join an already established poly family. I am monogamous, and I want the same in my partner.
11/13/2012 6:47:42 PM
Protip: When a submissive tells you a hard limit, never laugh at her and tell her "You just need to get over that." Never.
