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Switch/Sub Couple, 38/44,  Bucks County, Pennsylvania US

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Bisexual Dominant Couple
Age: 49, Height: 5ft 11in (180 cm), Weight: 210 lbs.
Location: RANCHO MIRAGE, California
Last on 5/6/14 at 11:42 PM








 Switch/Sub Couple

 Bucks County 


 Willing to Relocate



Primary Partner:











 5' 6"

 137 lbs



Secondary Partner:









 5' 10"

 195 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Dominant Trans

Submissive Trans

Dom/Domme Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Male-Dom Couples

Friends Only

Online Romance

A Poly Household

Traveling.. maybe near you if I viewed you..

Please write to me with how you are compatible with specific things in my profile here. .  I want to read it!

Just viewing me is not enough to get my attention, sorry. 

Maybe I am pretending to be domme now just to get my husband further submissive.  I am sub.  I switch. There, I admitted it. But my core is sub. 

This is quality, erotic, fetish recreation for us, not yet a lifestyle (yet) But may lead to that.   We are completely financially independent and relocatable. If you like to have total control, that is a big plus.  Also to start, communication is the key.  It all leads to control, control and control. We are very interested in relocating and changing our lives for a situation that is compelling. 

We may be tempted to be taken much further and welcome that.  

Just one thought among many: So.. for a long time I have had a fantasy to feel my husband following the advice of another (or lured from me) a little piece at a time.. he has wonderful massage skills and is more than adequate in other ways.

Could that really happen?  I want to risk it.  So many other variations I hope you have an imagination and suggest!

This all leads to me surrendering to something I don't know yet. 


It is about what I need and what is next for us as a couple. Adding you and your control and use of us to our already great marriage and erotic life.   I am telling you a LOT here and I expect a LOT in your message to me please.  Please don't send questions or advice in your first message.

Really tell me exactly what you seek that is for us and do not be shy!  If it matches what I need then we'll continue.  This is 100% about it beginning with you leading my husband directly. 
Okay yes.. i love seeing pics!

And yes he has agreed to explore all of it, but I will not be the one to explain the detsils - you will do that.  He is not on this site and I prefer that he is not told about it. 


You need to write to me to get my attention.  I cannot sort through all the viewers of my profile.

If you want me alone without caring about what I envision with my husband, please don't bother to write to me at all. Those offers are several per week and I just ignore them.  If you don't have your location/city in your profile I am not going to be very interested until you tell me those things.

Also very interested in a male or female personal trainer, massage therapist, and life coach or hypnotist for him.

if you believe in violence, physical punishment (other than symbolic), or extreme pain of any kind, we are not there.  We have absolutely no interest in more than playful pain and do not believe in punishment at all. We are all about positive reinforcement with mental control and that is what the hypnosis does.  We are unique and do not feel the cliches and cuck terms apply to us. Get to know us. 


These are the only photos I choose to share at this time. 


WARNING: ANY person or organization using this site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form, forum or in any way both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. 




Journal Entries:
8/29/2017 3:11:04 AM
I want him to think you know me well but are contacting him without my knowledge and without telling him how we met. Hoping you tell him all the ways your involvement with me/us will be good for our marriage. 

6/8/2017 4:56:40 AM
Maybe you can tell me how you are compatible with some of my profile, especially in the initial communications with my husband which will lead him down your path and help me have trust in surrendering myself without danger to my marriage. 

1/5/2017 4:16:45 AM
Perhaps also looking for a gift for my husband.
An erotic experience for him while I am away ;)
An elaborate mind fucking?
Maybe one that leads to more..

11/11/2016 2:20:53 AM
Really not interested in stories about your past experiences before I know your specific interests in us..

What exactly in my profile do you want to do?  Need you to especially be eager about informing my husband and telling him all this will be good for our marriage. 
For me, it is hard to talk past the the first phases in which the dominant communicates with my husband and getting more and more into his head.  It excites me to think of someone wanting me and knowing I will surrender myself if that dominant has the ability to lead him into having the confidence to believe it is just fine for all of this to happen in a marriage without a single mention of a negative such as don't worry, nothing wrong with that etc..,  pure encouragement leading to control and dominance is what is needed here. 

10/15/2016 5:35:42 PM
0- All relationships here start online. We are online now. Get that.  This site is online.  I am not voicing with someone I have not chatted with extensively and determined them to be suitsble. 

1- I am extremely privacy oriented and will trust no one immediately.  No one. No exceptions. If that screens out someone I might have liked, but in my opinion has risky or unreasonable demands too quickly, then my loss. But I handle loss very well and the trade off is very worth it to me so no discussion desired about that. 

2- When I do start letting someone in, it is in an anonymous way as much as possible. Chat systems, email, etc - two way street. Again no exceptions. 

3- I will never use my phone number until I have physically met someone many times and like that person - in person. 

4- Domination means various, multiple things, at different times, to different people. Do not presume. 

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