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Take me?  Take him?  Take both? Dominance attracts me. Your dominance over my husb
Sub/Sub Couple, 42/32,  Bucks ❤, Pennsylvania US

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Bisexual Dominant Couple
Age: 49, Height: 5ft 11in (180 cm), Weight: 210 lbs.
Location: RANCHO MIRAGE, California
Last on 5/6/14 at 11:42 PM








 Sub/Sub Couple

 Bucks ❤ 


 Willing to Relocate



Primary Partner:











 5' 5"

 139 lbs



Secondary Partner:









 5' 9"

 180 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Dominant Trans

Dom/Domme Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only

Take me?  Take him?  Take both?

Dominance attracts me. Your dominance over my husband attracts me more.  Who has the confidence to inform my husband that you will insert yourself into our marriage and be with me?  The mind fuck is a powerful thing..  

I am a woman. My happiness matters. Mental domination matters. My husband is a boy to me in all ways and very good for certain things. Not in any bad way, but he is much younger, more playful, loyal and passive while I am mature and want an open marriage with freedom.  I am slightly a switch - mostly sub - but he is all repressed sub and it would be ideal if you led him to being more sub without me needing to be domme in any way toward him. He does not get on this site. He barely knows about it. 

So.. for a long time I have had a fantasy to feel myself pushed aside, knowing I will be taken in time, my need to be dominated is what this is all about, but first you get my husband following your advice (or lured from me) a little piece at a time.. he has wonderful massage skills and is more than adequate in other ways so please, cliche insults are unwelcome, but a plan for how YOU will influence him is very welcome way to begin.  My gf already has taken him part of the way down a sub path with hypnosis, but she will not be involved going forward. 


 First step if you are compatible:

Tell me how you are compatible with all you just read :)

Short term should be about communications and connecting beginning with you communicating with and leading my husband directly about whatever you and I agree he should be told. 

Long term should be about adding you and your control and use of me or us to our already great marriage and erotic life or you tell me your goal. 

Long distance is a possible way to start if expectations are realistic and you take your time to get into our heads. 

Sure I am a sub feminist, but I am not tainted with the distortions and prejudices toward men from teachings in current women and gender studies.  I love both women and men.  So this is not meant to be political although some will twist it in their head lol.  It is a preference which I am entitled to have just like anyone else identifying in any way. Moving on..

if you believe in violence, physical punishment (other than symbolic), or extreme pain of any kind, we are not there.  We are all about positive reinforcement with mental control and that is what the hypnosis does.  We are unique and do not feel the cliches and cuck terms apply to us. Get to know us. 


These are the only photos I choose to share at this time. 


WARNING: ANY person or organization using this site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form, forum or in any way both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. 




Journal Entries:
10/12/2017 5:12:10 AM
Start off by telling me your interest in us as far as you informing my husband and making him accept you in our marriage please

10/15/2016 5:35:42 PM
0- All relationships here start online. We are online now. Get that.  This site is online.  I am not voicing with someone I have not chatted with extensively and determined them to be suitable. 

1- I am extremely privacy oriented and will trust no one immediately.  No one. No exceptions. If that screens out someone I might have liked, but in my opinion has risky or unreasonable demands too quickly, then my loss. But I handle loss very well and the trade off is very worth it to me so no discussion desired about that. 

2- When I do start letting someone in, it is in an anonymous way - as much as possible. Chat systems, email, etc - two way street. Again no exceptions. 

3- I will never use my phone number until I have physically met someone many times and like that person - in person. 

4- Domination means various, multiple things, at different times, to different people. Do not presume. 

8/6/2016 4:28:56 AM
I think he is happy for me when I am happy no matter who I am talking with and that is what makes us such a perfect pair.

I have no interest in dominating him in any way, but just to benefit from someone else controlling him and shaping him to make me more happy.  What they do to achieve that is up to them (you).  I will surrender to that person once I am sure my husband is totally accepting and our marriage will stay intact, but in a different form which you define.

Sometimes I bring home a girlfriend.  She is more 'assertive' in the bedroom but not really dominant.  Sometimes we play alone and sometimes we involve my husband.  When we involve him, he is always restrained by my gf and he seems to be very willing in a slightly resistant way which is very cute.  Sometimes I leave him alone with her.  I like how that makes me feel jealous and worried I will lose him, but then get him back when she leaves. 

7/28/2016 9:21:40 AM
We have a wonderful marriage and I love him.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with him

This is about ADDING something to an already perfect marriage just as if we were taking up a new hobby and seeing where it leads anywhere from disinterest to obsession and life-style.  Open to any outcome that comes over time and naturally.

I want to enjoy the PROCESS in a drawn out and erotic way because I only get to enjoy that once (or twice?).  Please slow down.

Wondering if I would introduce you to him as his new life-coach who wants to get started with his fitness and diet goals and eventually take control of much more ;)

1/1/2016 5:43:47 AM
It would also be nice if a sub sent me a note saying "I will read hypnosis to your husband and I am willing to send you a sample of my voice just to be able to help you" and more...

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