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paigestarr

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I am taking a break to take care of Real Life, if you don't get an answer from a message, please don't take offense, I am just too busy to be online.

I am a SWF in search of someone special to share my fantasies and my true switch nature. Depending on my feeling from you, I can turn it "on" or "off". I am totally heteroflexible!

I am curvy lady from a mixed heritage, French, Hispanic, Irish... just your general all American mutt. A bit of rockabilly, pin-up and old school goth girl, (completely different than the emo kids of today!) If you are looking for a cookie cutter super athletic and slim Barbie type, then I'm not right for you. I like my curves but still try and stay healthy for my benefit. Don't try to change or shame me and we'll get along great.

Yes, I switch. Don't make assumptions. I can control and let loose of control.

I like to think outside the box in terms of reality and fantasy.

Life is too short to not explore.

NOT looking for those who are unclean; must be drama & disease free.

Oh, and... DO NOT REQUEST TO BE MY FRIEND IF WE HAVE NEVER TALKED! Automatic reject! Sorry kids....

Damn, thought of another thing... NOT into online D/s situations, if I am interested, I am looking for someone local to KC, or willing to travel.

**WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.**
6/7/2012 8:11:34 PM

Been home in KC for 2 months now and I love my life! Its nice to be back where people know and love me.

3/11/2012 9:44:05 PM

RETURNING TO KANSAS CITY...


6 months of near hell in Los Angeles. No job prospects, living situation getting worse.... My hours in school will transfer easily, so fuck this noise. I'm out no later than April 15th.


I thought I retained some of the wild LA girl I was when I lived in LA ten-years ago and while some of that still exists, its no longer on public display.


Adios!

11/28/2011 5:53:38 PM

Things are still chaotic for me. I'm trying to decide if I'm really happy or even gonna make it financially in LA. The cost of living has sky-rocketed in the last 10 years but the wages have not increased. I've had three interviews in almost three months. :(


People I've met have been really cool, but my lack of transportation and money make it hard to have face-to-face interaction. And considering I'm still not quite sure what I'm looking for.... I am totally hesitant. 

11/15/2011 7:02:09 PM

My mind reels with all the changes lately. Moving, starting school, being jobless, meeting new people, reforming old friendships. I mean most of it's awesome, but I'm still feeling awash at sea just floating with the current, no rhyme or reason. I mean I know life will settle down, and you'd think given my past, I'd be used to the chaos, but... I want some stability.

 

Maybe that stability will come from having the ability to let someone take control over me for a bit. When I'm in control of another, I'm usually very clear-headed and sure of myself and my surroundings. Here, now? Not so much. I need a firm hand to guide me, tease me, punish me, caress me. But I don't just want a Top/Master/Dom, I want a friend to go out with, someone who will be supportive vanilla-wise and be downright dirty with me.

 

I dunno. I hate "looking". I don't wanna be harassed by every troll or dirtbag that seems to hide themselves under the cover of the anonymous internet. Yet, I don't have the capability to go to a local munch or dungeon party alone. Nor would I want to.... once again, single female = fresh meat. No thank you!

 

We'll see, no point in mooning over it.

 

11/4/2011 5:01:07 PM

So, I've been talking to some interesting people on here, but given my current living situation and lack of privacy, it's hard to really meet people. I just gotta remember to keep my head up, continue for my goal, and it'll all get better in time.

11/2/2011 9:11:00 PM

So I've moved back to my home base, SFV California..... yay! Looking to expanding my adventures here an making new friends!

10/7/2008 4:29:22 PM
Taking an interest in being the Dominant one over a close friend... we shall see where this leads.
9/5/2008 9:35:10 PM
I am back online, and ready to meet new people!
7/29/2008 6:00:11 PM
Going out of town for business for a few days, don't be offended if I don't answer your emails for the time I am gone!
7/27/2008 5:59:16 PM
Thanks to all the guys for such a warm welcome... too bad no women are interested. *LOL*

Having fun chatting with people and getting to hear different stories....