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  Hello, I am a 56 year old white-collar professional (person of color) searching for a
Male Submissive, 56,  Tucson, Arizona US

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 180 lbs





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I am a 56 year old white-collar professional (person of color) searching for an owner (between 40-60 years) who is interested in a long-term Power Exchange relationship that blends vanilla and D/s through a Female Led Relationship (FLR). Please be single, unattached and emotionally available - looking for an monogamous relationship.

I am looking for a professional who has a career - someone who is seriously into the D/s lifestyle with a vivid imagination, who is not afraid to put into practice the things she imagines into real-time interaction. Someone who is take-charge, hands-on, and never afraid to take what she wants when she wants it. I am truly seeking a visceral connection on all levels and senses. Communication, chemistry and compatability are essential.

I am looking for someone with class, manners, solid values, appreciation for aesthetics, who is sophisticated with high degree of social intelligence, who understands style, public presentation (as in all the world is a stage), and that knows how to focus on the important things between two adults.

My search has been unsuccessful so far because all the interesting possibilities have all been out of state, so hopefully I will have luck closer to home. I am unable to relocate at this time. I am open and welcome to an owner who wants to consider relocation to Phoenix or Tucson, Arizona provided that this has positives instead of negatives associated with this move. In other words, the conditions laid forth below.

I am intelligent, confident, well-educated, and well-read – keeping up with the news and other topics of interest. Isn't the Internet just wonderful? The libraries of the world are at your fingertips. Please have a curious mind.

Words that describe me well are respectful, compliant, considerate, deferential, empathetic, sensual, cerebral, inquisitive, and adventurous. Please be well-rounded.

I manage people, budgets, and expectations in my day-time Alpha role professionally (same company for 10+ years), but I am seeking an altogether opposite role after hours. I have a career that I love and I work remotely from home all day long. It would be wonderful to meet someone that has the same professional situation though I am very open to someone who does not.

I am a very stable home-owner, enormously successful professionally, financially, and in my personal life so I am looking for someone who is equally accomplished and stable as well. You need to be economically self-sufficient before you go looking for something or someone to compliment or complete your life. I will not support you financially, and I do not want your money.

Please have a plan for retirement, and hobbies that give you joy and help to relax you because I do.

I love to cook and keep an orderly house. It would be wonderful to cook with/or for someone and take care of them. I have a wonderful gourmet kitchen that is just right for two people to spend countless hours preparing whatever we desire.

There is little to no drama in my life on a day-to-day basis, and I wish to keep it that way.

I have wonderful family and relatives (though my personal life is private) and we often get together for dinners where 10 people or more are in attendance routinely.

Discretion is necessary and required in masking our lifestyle from our families, friends, outsiders, and strangers.

I cannot believe I have to say this, but please be literate with reading/writing ability at college graduate level and able to compose a paragraph with exquisite prose that incorporates proper syntax, grammar, spelling, and punctuation. My family, relatives and friends are all well-educated and nothing would be more embarrassing than to bring someone home that cannot speak and write very well. Do not pretend you are educated when you cannot write properly.

Yes, it does matter.

If your resume or cover letter were not perfect, would the HR representative reading your resume among hundreds where you are applying for a job even want to meet with you?

Trust me when I say this; your writing style is a key indication and reflection of your personality, intelligence, and character.

It is sad that the art of writing well is disappearing faster than the Glaciers that regulate the Earth's weather.

First impressions are important, and so is paying attention to details.

Please read my interests' list and make sure these activities are complimentary with your interests'. I am open to exploration.

If any of this has piqued your interest, please say hello.

Thank you for your time.

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