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SweetCries
Female Dominant, 57,  Biloxi, Mississippi US

Link to this profile: https://www.collarspace.com/SweetCries

 

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 SweetCries

 Dominant Female

 Biloxi 

 Mississippi

 5' 6"

 165 lbs

 57

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 07/02/10

 09/20/17

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Seeking FLR, I've been around for a while and have tried just about everything. Not interested in online relationships.  




 


I am Laughing_Goddess on FL, much more there.


 I am the former group leader of SMART (South Mississippi Association of Roses and Thorns)  We are the coast's Munch and play group.


I am the Chapter Director of MAsT:Biloxi (Master's And slaves Together- a support group for folks interested and/or living the Master/slave, Dominant/submissive lifestyle.)




All photos in this profile are originals (none taken from the net) they are of me and my play partners and were taken by me and edited by me. They are my property and may not be copied, edited or reproduced.




 






Journal Entries:
8/23/2017 11:20:15 AM
I don't understand why it's so hard to understand that I'm not interested in online relationships.  I'm a real person that needs real, hands on. interaction.  I'm seriously looking for a well rounded person interested in a well rounded relationship.  Offering service and especially no limits service before even saying hello and getting to know me is not only stupid, it's irresponsible and immature.  

I have real time experience, living with a slave in a FLR relationship.  I'm not into guys who only want to satisfy their fetish desires and expect me to behave or be something that I am not.  I am who I am, I enjoy doing what I do, but I won't do anything with someone who doesn't take the time to get to know me.  Honesty, sincerity and realism push my buttons.

1/5/2015 1:40:56 PM
So yesterday I received a message from some dude threatening to kill me because of the first line of my profile.   For some ungodly reason he took that line seriously.   

For clarification, that first line and my cover photo were created 5 years ago when I had a submissive who was into pet play.  His animal self was a kitty, and he loved it when I used to beat him.  He is also the boy at my feet in the photos of myself.

I leave the line there even though he is no longer with me.  He moved on to meet the love of his life and I was very happy for both of them.   Sadly he passed away last year from a deadly disease that he was born with.  He was only 27 years old.   A precious boy who's memory I will forever hold close to my heart.

As for the dude, I reported his message to the administrators and was notified that his account was deleted.  I take death threats very seriously.

4/27/2011 6:32:18 AM

I've spent all morning reading UltimateDomme's blog, ok I have to admit it, she's my idol.  That's some funny shit :)   If you've notice that I've viewed your profile, it's probably because she gave you a mention.


4/23/2011 3:03:28 AM

I've been doing a lot of reading and listening and watching and I thought it was time I just threw this out there. I'm poly, and this is what it means to me. This is my take on it, it's not right or wrong, it's how I think and feel and how I run my house.

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From Websters:
Definition of POLYAMORY
: the state or practice of having more than one open romantic relationship at a time
— poly·am·or·ist noun
— poly·am·o·rous adjective

From Wikipedia:
Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [love]) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.

Polyamory, often abbreviated to poly, is sometimes described as consensual, ethical, or responsible non-monogamy. The word is occasionally used more broadly to refer to any sexual or romantic relationships that are not sexually exclusive, though there is disagreement on how broadly it applies; an emphasis on ethics, honesty, and transparency all around is widely regarded as the crucial defining characteristics.
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That very last sentence is what it's all about to me. Honesty, ethics, and transparency. Once we start hiding, keeping secrets or outright lying about what is truly going on, any relationship is doomed for failure.

 

Add D/s to poly and things get even more complicated because those of us on the D side of the equation want things our way. That's not saying that a double D (or more) lead poly group won't work, I KNOW that it can, it's just something that I'm not sure that I could do without making everyone miserable.

 

I call my ideal for a poly family an "open poly with restrictions" (is that an oxymoron?) Personally I feel that we have the ability to love many. Think of it as having multiple children, we love them all, individually and totally (and I hope, unconditionally). That doesn't mean that we approve of everything they do, or agree with them in everything, or allow them to stomp all over us, we just love. I also believe that being in love does not necessarily mean being sexually involved, tho that can be a part of it, or even some parts of it. To me sex is more a bodily function, part of a happy, healthy body, but not always an emotional experience.

 

Breaking it down "open poly" to me means that every member of my family is allowed to have other relationships, friendships, lovers and even submissives if they choose, with some simple "restrictions": 1) I'm ultimately in charge and make final decisions (everyone submits to my rule); 2) Everyone has to be able to get along with each other (destructive/toxic relationships not allowed). 3)my primaries do not submit to anyone other than myself unless it's at my direction. 4) no secret relationships, everything is out in the open and discussed.

 

Sounds simple, but it's really not. It's hard work and takes an enormous amount of self control. Meshing multiple personalities into a cohesive, loving unit takes a lot of honesty, openness, communication and patience. And then there's the issue of everyone getting their needs met, dealing with jealousy and working out simple issues like division of chores and responsibilities and even handling personality quirks.

Adding another to the household will not work if the primary relationship(s) are not stable and/or lack effective communication. There has to be discussion of boundaries and rules. Just because I'm the Dom doesn't mean that I don't have take everyone's feelings into consideration. I have to carefully chose my partners and anticipate the difficulties that will need to be worked out. I need to make sure that no one feels left out, neglected or insecure in my feelings for them. Most of all I need time and a lot of patience and to make damn sure that everyone is on the same page. My partners secondaries also need to understand the relationship that we share and the expectations that I have. If secondaries are not on the same page it will simply not work.

 

Everything is negotiable, relationships come and go, keeping the friendship and the love flowing no matter what happens is the goal.

 


11/7/2010 8:32:03 AM

"A Domme doesn’t stop being a woman when she puts on thigh high boots and picks up a whip. A Domme is even more acutely aware of her femininity than the typical vanilla woman. She isn’t just looking for a boyfriend. She is seeking something very special. Very erotic. Very emotional. Very spiritual. Very powerful. Something deep and meaningful, far and above just going to a movie and coming home and getting laid. She is looking to enrapture a man. To be worshipped and adored as a woman. To be loved and needed so deeply that she can enjoy her most intimate and passionate desires with someone who needs her attention so much that he willingly gives up his personal power and thrives on living to make her smile."...closetsitter1



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