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Seeking committed female slave to train collar.
Please take the time to read our entire profile, including our journal, before contacting us.
you HWP, active, healthy, submissive, Bi.
Interested in Training, service, control, micro-management, *ownership.
For rl, live-in, 247 TPE, sexual domestic service.
you shouldwant to learn about slavery, submission, and service what it really means to serve with your mind, body, and whole being. you should be just as interested in the mental side of submission, as in the physical.
We are a happily married experienced dominant couple.
We are also open to friendship with local kinksters female couples only.
We expressly grant no permission whatsoever to any persons for any use or reproduction of any text or images in our profile.
*You must understand what this means in the context of the real world and be open to realistic relocation if youre not local.

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7/26/2010 12:47:56 PM

First, if you are serious enough to contact us, we expect you to read our whole profile; this includes our entire journal. It's real & honest. We expect no less from you.

- Our photos are real, so are we.

- We do not accept random 'Add' requests. Take the time to get to know us first.

- Don?t expect us to dominate you online; we aren?t interested in online play.

-? If you are any of the following, your mail will go directly to bulk: Single males, no profile, or not located in the US.

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We aren?t going to tell you our whole life story here, but decided to give a basic outline of some things you should know.

Our Lifestyle:

We are both Alpha personalities; that means naturally dominant. It also does not mean that we are assholes. On the contrary; most assholes we come across, project an alpha persona because in reality they are mostly immature, insecure, and needing something to hide behind. You can have a dominant personality and still be a nice person; one doesn?t preclude the other.

Our involvement in BDSM goes way back. He trained and worked as a professional Dom. She comes from the adult entertainment industry. He is?a commanding and?exacting trainer; She is a sexual Top and domestic matriarch. We are connected, but relatively inactive in our local BDSM community; it is mostly an issue of time constraints and drama avoidance that keeps us only casually involved.

Our interest in BDSM is varied (in no specific order):?

- Psychological: slave training, ritual, protocol, obedience, etiquette, erotic hypnosis, relyfe programming, mind fuck

- Power Exchange: Master/slave, TPE, D/s, D/lg, TIH, HOH, DD, take down/rape play

- Restraint: Collars, cuffs, shackles, gags, hoods, caging, confinement

- Bondage: Suspension, Shibari, predicament, rope, chain, strap

- Sensation: TENS/EMS, wax, hot/cold, vacuum/suction, clamps

- Impact: Spanking, paddling, flogging, single tail, crops, canes

- Service: Massage, pampering, valet, chamber, domestic

- SSC & negotiated RACK

- Erotic/fetish photography & videography

What We Ultimately Seek:

We are?ultimately seeking a naturally submissive, naturally born HWP female slave, to?develop a D/s relationship with. Someone that understands that she will always be subordinate, and subject to our directions and desires.

About Us:

At first look, we are a typical middle-class family and household. We both work, live in a nice but modest suburban home. He works in IT Management, she is in retail sales. We have the regular everyday friends, as well as our BDSM friends, and we stay connected with our extended families. We identify as a family because we are raising a child outside of any ?lifestyle? exposure. The first question we get usually is, ?Can you realistically have a ?slave? AND raise a vanilla child?!? The answer is, ?Yes, definitely!? We have personal experience, and have seen this work successfully for others we know, as well. Questions about how, and is this for you, are things to discuss in more detail later, and ultimately a decision you have to make: Is this is a part of the context that you are willing to serve within? In our free time we are social, outgoing, & enjoy group gatherings; lifestyle, naturalist, and vanilla alike. We enjoy the outdoors, like to travel, go camping, entertain friends, etc.

D/s:

With all D/s domestic situations, work & pleasure go hand in hand, understand that our expectation is that you will perform daily cleaning and household chores as part of your service and training. We also desire someone who will be a handmaiden to her and valet to him. You can expect to undergo physical and psychological retraining, as we work together to remove old misconceptions and bad habits; and retrain you to our liking. This will consist of ritual & protocol, obedience & service, submission & sensation training. We both have high libidos, so you will be used sexually often and regularly. We will reserve more details for the truly interested.

Some of what we expect: you will not work outside the home. your life, contacts, everything you do, say, the way you act, will be under our complete control. We desire total 24/7 TPE. We are looking to develop a reality-based D/s relationship. As with any D/s relationship, the basic power-exchange foundation is not negotiable.

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General Expectations:

We expect you to be literate; in that you can read & write English reasonably well.

You should be able to carry on an intelligent conversation; this includes internet communications as we get to know each other better. While long responses are not always necessary, you should be willing to type complete sentence replies.

You must be willing to share information about yourself, your past & current life, with us. We will openly discuss our lives with you; you should be able to do the same.

You should be of sound mind, in good health and physical shape, at peace with your past traumas, and have a healthy self esteem.

We are ultimately looking for someone to come live with and serve us: This means that you are free of commitments & dependants, are able and willing to relocate, are debt free; a US citizen or permanent US resident, and currently living in the US.

As with any relationship, when it progresses, you must be willing to verify, move on to phone/cam conversations, and be open to at least one trial visit prior to our making a final decision.

Personality:

First & foremost, we want someone who has a naturally submissive personality; someone who takes pleasure in taking care of others; finds joy in serving to the best of her abilities; always strives to improve herself; understands her position and station within the family; never acts defiantly or combatively.

You should have an awareness of who you are and what it means to enter into a D/s relationship. Your desires should be reality based; someone who understands the difference between the fantasy and reality of living day to day in a D/s dynamic. In any long-term D/s relationship, play and role-play are a small part of it. There are high-level periods when things are intense and hot with lots of play & attention, and also low-level times when the daily routine of life takes president. Just as in any relationship, it takes work, communication, caring, commitment, and a desire for the relationship to succeed.

Sincere, loyal, honest, truthful, trustworthy, dependable, confident, healthy & energetic; these are self explanatory.

Obedience - It is essential that, when it's important, there will be no argument or defiance when told that something has to be done a certain way. We will always listen to objections and concerns; sometimes modifying our decision based on feedback; but be it right or wrong, when talk is finished acquiescence follows.

Commitment - A willingness to do everything possible to make it work. Relationships are always difficult to sustain. Throw in a mix of D/s and it only gets more complicated. After that first rush of newfound romance wears off the work begins to ensure it endures the hardships and stresses that build up. We make a commitment to do whatever it takes, so we expect the same in return.

Self Control - Is the ability to control one's emotions, behavior and desires in order to efficiently manage oneself. Self control and self discipline go hand in hand. Knowing how and when to control your emotions takes discipline and commitment to persevere through difficulties without losing it. Temptation comes in many forms, often so potent that it seems impossible to resist. Mastering one?s self-control and learning how to respond to situations without just acting on impulse is one of the most important skills for success in life. By learning self-control, we can make appropriate decisions and respond to stressful situations in ways that will yield positive outcomes.

Affectionate - Able to openly and outwardly express emotions and feelings. The capacity to love and feel, to accept those feeling in return, and to express it in both words and actions.

Adaptable - A submissive needs to be able to adapt to a new home and way of doing things, and to recognize there will be changes. Is open to change, has a desire to learn, & is willing to grow over time.

A positive approach to life - The glass is half full not half empty. Looks to the future and does not dwell in the past.

Has a sense of humor - There is a time for seriousness and a time for fun. Humor is a big part of having fun. Knowing the difference, and when humor is appropriate is important; but also important is to never take yourself too seriously, and be able to enjoy laughter.

Selfishness - This may not be obvious, but it's a necessity. You have an obligation to make sure your own needs are being met. Submissives are highly sensitive to the emotions of everyone around them; to such an extent that they take for granted that everyone else sees what is so obvious to them. Sadly it doesn't always work that way. There are times when you have to make it known that you need attention; you can't always depend on others to always figure it out for themselves.

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What We Offer:

Any relationship, D/s or otherwise, is a two way street. We would never place any expectations on another with nothing to offer in return. So what do we offer? Here?s our basic breakdown:

Honesty: We endeavor to always be honest and upfront about everything. Sometimes the truth is hard to hear, or even say, but we have learned that dishonesty can hurt far worse, and have greater consequences. The truth can also be delivered with consideration; a small hurt that can be understood, rather than a huge blow that confuses.

Commitment: See the definition listed above under "Commitment". What we expect in the way of commitment, we return equally. We are committed to building a real D/s relationship and will do what it takes to make it work once we have found it.

Security: This covers many areas; Physical safety, a home to live in, a place to sleep, food, clothing; all the basic necessities of life, health and wellbeing.

Structure: It is important to understand the rules and expectations and to have a sense of structure to the dynamic. We will ensure that these are consistent, communicated clearly, and openly discussed beforehand so that there is reason and rhythm to your commitment and service.

Communication: Perhaps too often overlooked is the importance of good two-way communication. No one here is a deaf mute. Far too many relationships fail because of the lack of open, honest communication and dialog. We openly discuss everything and keep no secrets. That way, each knows where the other stands.

Trust: What is any relationship without trust? The same holds true here. We believe that the three basic pillars that build all meaningful friendships and relationships are: honesty, communication, and trust. Remove any one and the foundation falters and fails. We apply this basic premise to all our relationships; from casual to intimate. We believe this is why our own relationship is so successful.

We have put a lot of thought and effort into making this profile. We hope our seriousness and commitment to finding someone wanting to learn, train, and spend her life in service to us, is evident.

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Reading:

Lastly, with many years of real life BDSM experience under our belts, we have read and recommend many good books for either the budding novice or just someone who wants to understand our personal views on D/s, M/s, & BDSM in general. These are by no means the only books we have read or recommend, but definitely a good starting place for most:

- SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
- The Loving Dominant: by John and Libby Warren
- Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William and Gloria Brame
- A to Z Of BDSM: by Bill Reed
- Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships by Jack Rinella
- Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission by Claudia Varrin


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 Age: 26
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