February 2023 - Here's to a fresh take on things!
My name is BlueFyre, however you may call me Blue. Not Mistress, Ma'am, Miss, Goddess, or any of that. Just Blue. I am non-binary, agender, and my pronouns are They/Them/Blue.
I've been here on CS for years now, and met more than a handful of wonderful people from CS in the Real World. I've even had a couple of them live with me for a year or more.
I approach things differently than most people here, and I'm not going to apologize for that. I have invested weeks and months on people in the past who've then flaked on me or we've eventually discovered something we can't reconcile. So... I have The F0rm.
I learn and remember best through reading, and for efficiency's sake, I created a behemoth set of questions I call The F0rm. Think of it as a massive job application. It's big, it's detailed, it's upfront and blunt, and probably considered all too personal by some... (Words that could probably describe myself, too, lol!)
I ask a LOT of questions so that I can quickly spot potential pitfalls. The F0rm gives me a starting point for discussions as well, especially if I see red (or yellow) flags. I still want to chat about anything and everything that comes up in a more organic way, but this covers a lot of the Big Stuff upfront. I will request that all interested folx fill out some variation of The F0rm.
I've been around the block enough times to know that the people who are ready to join me on the ride, the ones who are serious, don't see The F0rm as being too much to complete.
Even still, I've decided that I'm going to pare down The F0rm, because I've come to realize that not every relationship I create through CS needs to be full-time, live-in, or even kink or BDSM-based. I need there to be SOME element of in-person interaction, though, so I am NOT looking for ANY online-only situations.
I'm willing to consider someone full or part time, various levels of kink or D/s, live-in or local, or even a roommate-style situation, as long as certain negotiated elements of assistance around my Home are met. Those tasks may be cleaning, picking up groceries, workout buddy, laundry, cooking, yard work, assisting me with decluttering, etc. -- there's lots of room for flexibility on my part. Bonus points for skilled trades to build or repair things around the Home.
What about us?
The current occupants of my Home include:
Hubby - My kink-friendly, but not kink-participating Hubby of 25+ years. He's my best friend, in his 50s, works from home, and is super-supportive of me being active in the BDSM community.
Semi-permanent Houseguest - A disabled Marine in her 30s. She came as a sub prospect, and is now a guest and a friend. She would serve me if she physically could.
Me, Blue - I'm a friendly, dorky, easygoing kind of person, in my late 40s. I'm a bit of an acquired taste, in part because I am a socially-awkward, shy extrovert. I thrive on caring for and protecting my People. ...But if youre looking for a hardass, sadistic bastard, I can be that, too. *evil grin*
Please note: We are not traditionally pretty people. (Look, new pics!) If appearance is important to you, move along. That aside, we're kind, fair, reasonably intelligent, even (sometimes) funny folx.
We are a casual, laid-back Home, but not without rules and expectations. In general, all persons living or serving here will be treated with respect, offered meals, be provided sufficient sleeping space (if full time), other necessities, and given frequent opportunity for community participation and personal growth.
Of course, beyond the day-to-day life here, I'm flexible in terms of play time, rewards, personal time, punishment... I can be a loving caretaker, a trusted friend, an indifferent taskmaster, or a cruel, sadistic asshole. Let's discuss what works and meets mutual needs!
For a more detailed descr!ption of me, check out BlueAngelFyre on here, or use your skills to find me elsewhere. Most of the inf0rmation in my other profiles is still accurate.
Note that I'm not really specifying any requirements about who YOU are. As long as you are friendly and can physically do what we mutually agree to, I can get along with just about anyone. Though, if you're hoping to live here 24/7, then being a Trump supporter or a smoker isn't going to work.
You should already live in Denver or be prepared to move here, or at least visit, within six weeks. If you dont live in the US already, understand that I will NOT assist with immigration; talk to me once you're in the U.S.
If you think we would be a good match, and are ready to serve, YOU should initiate and maintain contact. I DON'T CHASE. I may take a bit to respond, as I have fewer spoons these days than I'd like.