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I'm a divorced shrinking bbw, I'm Dominant, sadistic, honest, real, fun, smart & fairly down t
Female Dominant, 54,  North Dakota US

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 North Dakota

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I'm a divorced shrinking bbw, I'm Dominant, sadistic, honest, real, fun, smart & fairly down to earth. I like intelligence, honesty, humor, creativity, loyalty, respect. It's all really simple, show me those things & you'll get them back.

I really don't do online. I suck at it & I prefer to have all my senses involved when I'm with someone, not just sight & sound. So no online. If you'd like to get to know me, by all means, let's talk.

I do have age limits.. 25-51 I PREFER YOUNGER MEN. Got it??? YOUNGER NOT OLDER. Sheesh.

Journal Entries:
11/16/2017 9:12:08 AM
I'm so not in a good head space today. Tired. Just tired. I'm at war inside myself & I am trying hard to win this battle. I am a dominant woman, I'm strong & have survived every fucking thing that's been thrown at me. Here's where it gets sticky...I'm tired of being strong. No, I'm not suicidal...just tired of being strong. I don't want sex, I don't want to talk about sex...I want to be held & told it's gonna be ok. I don't want a knight in shining armor to rescue me, he can't fight the demons in my head for me. I don't want to talk about how I feel...just want to be held & feel safe. That's all.

11/15/2017 2:23:48 AM
I feel like the universe is shaking me awake here. I love the attention I'm getting but it's put this fog over me that seems to be clearing & I'm seeing things in a new light. Too many think I'm here just for them to get them off & then get all butt hurt sulky when I say no. Here's what it is, I'm not here for you. Then there are the others who have their own agendas, I'm not here for you either. I'm here for ME. OMFG, did I just say that??? Holy shit. Yes, I just said that. I'm here for ME. I want what I want. Sounds pretty bratty & selfish for a woman to say that & mean it & I don't care. I'm 54 yrs old, spent most of my life doing & being what others wanted (not as a sub), I've earned the right to be selfish & want to be taken care of. I paid my dues & it's time. Forget what I'm going to do for you as a D or otherwise. I want to know what the fuck you're going to do for me. That's what I want to know, what're you going to do for me. How're you going to take care of me??? I do believe in being fair...if you give me what I want, there will be a fair exchange of energies. But you better be able to fucking tell me what you're going to do for me FIRST. NOT the other way around.

11/11/2017 7:01:05 AM
I see so many people in here who say they want a relationship...they get to talking with someone & things click. There's hope for it to go further but the hope is only fleeting for as long as the conversation stays in the bdsm area. Something happens & for whatever reason, the person they're talking to takes that conversation outside the bdsm area & into the mundane, the everyday struggles & observations. OMG, how dare they do that. They find that they really don't want to hear about the mundane, everyday life & then there's a breach, a break in the hope of there being a relationship with this person. Next thing you know, they're bored & have moved on to the next prospect. This happens to all of us who use these sites. Thing is, if you can't handle the other person's everyday life in here, you won't be able to handle a real relationship with someone who likes kink. So I have to question, do you want a relationship or the fantasy??? Do you want a face to face real time relationship...if you do, you have to take the mundane, everyday life parts of the other person as much as the bdsm/kink life. You have to put the real effort & work into it from start to finish; you can't be sporadic about it or just show up when you're horny then disappear again. You need to set yourself apart from the 1000's of others in here by being real, honest & putting in the work. If you want the fantasy, you're in the right place. There's always someone more than willing to help with that.

11/10/2017 2:50:52 PM
Reality sucks. Seriously, just sucks. You get to talking with someone, things seem good & then the reality hits that this person live a bazillion miles away or despite claims of being real & wanting a relationship, they're wanting you to get their rocks off Everytime they talk to you or they want the 50 Shades of Grey type of BDSM or whatever...the end result is that reality sets in, they just fade out or abruptly disappear. Those are the realities of the internet. The twist, for the most part I enjoy the people I talk to so I keep coming back to this site & probably will keep coming even though the site keeps messing up...lolol

11/8/2017 11:28:08 AM
YOUNGER MEN. NOT OLDER. YOUNGER. How fucking hard is it People??? YOUNGER THAN 54 YRS OLD...

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