Having been here for a while now, Ive developed a clearer sense of what I want and what I DONT want. The truth is - this profile is not for the majority of the people that are here. I have no delusions that many present are not who they claim to be be it the fantasy seekers, the scambots, or the truly unstable.



With that being said, I would like to thank the handful of genuine people who have expanded my knowledge and were able to communicate like a well socialized human being. If politeness or manners are not on your list of Dominant qualities, we will not get along. Ive came to realize that Im Dominant, but not arrogant, for some reason people here seem to intertwine the two. Its my belief that submission is a gift that one GIVES, not something a Dominant takes. Ultimately its another and expression of trust.



I need a partner that owns a goto dress for last minute al affairs as well as toys they can never tell anyone about. Someone who will tell me when Im wrong, even in public, but not question me if told to do certain things in private. If you manage to throw a little chaos into the order of things, youre indeed a rare find and you have my full attention.



The simple truth is, Im a professional with alternative desires. This is not what defines me or my relationships its just one aspect of it. Im looking for my counterweight, the yin to my yang, or simply put a submissive that can carry a public vanilla life (and actually enjoy vanilla activities). I have no interest in being a full on sadist (small degree of pain is fine), or sharing this lifestyle publicly (I have a professional life, and hope you do as well - or aspire to). I am however open to trying alternative things to satisfy your specific unique needs should our trust build. More trust, more open to your alternative needs pretty simple I think.



I can provide pictures and even go on Skype once we establish we are both stable individuals with alternative desires.