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Please read my profile, or at least skim through to answer some of the questions you may have. I try to answer the questions I am frequently asked on here. This makes it easy to pass through formalities and get into a decent conversation. I get tired of hearing: "Are you owned?" "Do you want to be?" "What brings you here?" "Are you seeking a 24/7 Master?" "What makes you a submissive?" "Tell me about yourself."
I am NOT owned.
Do not call me 'hun' 'girl' 'babe' or any pet name before knowing me, and knowing it is okay. My name is Kaila, and please refer to me as such. Thank you.
I have a profile to tell you about myself. So, asking me to tell you about myself is rather frustrating. If you'd like to ask a question to elaborate on something, don't hesitate to ask. But if you ask me the silly questions I am always asked, that ARE answered here, I will, most likely, ignore the message.
Let me elaborate a bit on a question I receive frequently:
Just because I am not looking for a serious relationship does NOT mean I am not open to one. It simply means that I am not actively searching for one.
Good grammar is a must. If you want to talk to me, I like to know I am talking to an educated, or intelligent individual. I enjoy good conversation. Therefore, I do not wish to decipher a message. Do not type 'u' 'ur' 'r'...etc. It makes you look uneducated. I look for maturity. I enjoy intelligence.
Most POPULAR question!
Do I like older men?
Not if they ask me that question. I'm attracted to a person not a number. If you feel the need to ask if I like a particular age group more than another, than I am not the girl for you.
So, how did I learn that I am submissive/ how did I start in the lifestyle AND any question of the sort...
I learned about it at an early age online. I was around 13 years old. I came across a photo randomly through an innocent internet search. It was a girl tied up. I looked into it more. I learned about BDSM and came across a bondage website and I started going to chatrooms there when I was very young. I learned a lot. When I turned 18, I began real life (8 years now). I got into a relationship (M/s TPE, Owned and Collared, or whatever you'd like to term it) shortly after. I met great people, traveled a lot and experienced many things. I have always been submissive. When I started going online, I found that I identified with that role.
What brings me to to this site...this chatroom...or anything concerning this site at all?
Easiest answered by saying: the internet. But honestly, I just come here for good conversation. I am in no way interested in an online relationship. I don't do online.
Will I relocate?
Most likely no. I see no reason in uprooting myself, my fur babies, and my life for someone who wouldn't do the same.
What are my thoughts on training?
Training...in every sense of the word, to me, is the same as what anyone would do in any relationship. You learn about the other person, regardless of the dynamic, and you do what pleases them. End of story. Call it training...call it whatever you want to. I have been in an M/s relationship and learned how to please my Master. Take it as you will.
What kinds of things did he and I do?
Well, my he was a she. Yes, I am bisexual. No, I do not have a preference. I am attracted to a person for who they are...not their genitalia.
Why did we break up?
That is irrelevant to any initial conversation. We were together for 5 years. It didn't work out. That is all you need to know.
Main kinks are impact play, edge play.
Impact play = play involving impact
Edge play: risky play...needles, cutting, breath play, blood play, ect....
I will not call you Sir, Ma'am, Miss, Master...ect until I've gotten to that point with you. So don't expect me to. I did not grow up in the South. I am not accustomed to using these terms in regular conversation. I use these terms at BDSM events, and conventions. I use these terms when I refer to people who have earned my respect. I give everyone respect to an extent. Respect is earned. And respect can be lost.
I do not roleplay...at all.
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I do not obey just because your a Dom/me. That respect is earned by both parties. End of Discussion. That doesn't make me a bad submissive. It just makes me picky. I enjoy topping on occasion, but I am not a Domme.
I do not like pet names. Do not call me baby, babe, pet, girl, or hun...especially hun. That is a surefire way to piss me off and end conversation.
I am not an argumentative person, but I will state my mind. I enjoy discussions. Even if they get heated.
I'm Kaila.
I'm submissive.
I have a slave heart. And with the right Master, I could be considered a slave.
Been in the lifestyle 7 years.
That is 7 years of real time.
That also means that I have been in a TPE relationship.
That was a live-in status type.
I no longer consider myself a newb.
Love meeting new people.
Not looking for a serious relationship right now.
Always up for making new friends.
I'm a student.
Working on my Master's Degree for Behavioral Psychology.
I live in South-Central Kansas.
What I like: (this could get long)
*to draw
*to sing
*girls in drag (mmm) definitely have a thing for drag kings
*to paint
*languages
*movies
*quotes
...will add more later
1.) I don't care who you are and how much you tell me I can trust you. You will not get my photo until I trust you. And when that happens, you could get my cam, phone number and a whole album of photos for all I know. Trust is earned and comes with time.
2.) I respond to every message I get unless they are rude, vulgar or offensive.
I love:
impact play
wax play
whips
control
learning
languages
humor
quotes
art
My limits:
anything illegal
beastiality
toilet play
People keep asking what I'm looking for:
nothing serious
honesty
humor
intelligence
fun
optimistism
friendship
good conversation
sensibility
sincerity
unassuming
non-judgemental
openminded
creative
interesting
focused
true
...people
Any fetishes I have on my profile are all ones I've tried with the exception of any sort of toilet play. That is and will be a hard limit.
I will not add photos on here at this point right now.
Nor will I send them to someone I don't know and trust. Bad experiences.
I have mid-back length dark brown hair. Blue Eyes. 5'4. Average build. I think I am attractive. I work hard to look good.
I will add more to this later.
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