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Single submissive helpmeet with a
strongly kinky
not particularly masochistic
intensely sexual main course,
seeking the last owner of her life.

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To the married gentlemen: I appreciate your interest. I even understand that what you might have to offer could be very valuable. But I am greedy, and I want to see the wrinkles in the corners of your eyes when I fall asleep, and when I wake up again. Day after day after day.

********************************* Please be between 45 and 67 years of age (please don't ask me why. It's not entirely rational).



The chat system here and my computer don't see eye to eye. If you'd like to chat, we can do that off this board.


Wow, I haven't read my profile in a while, and that is a LOT of caveats before we even get going.

Sorry about that, but unfortunately that all needs to be said to save everyone's time.


Now to the crux of the matter:

Do you feel


D/s is about emotional nakedness

D/s requires not even a touch

D/s is spiritual

D/s eroticizes darned near everything

D/s makes everything about sex

D/s is an upward spiral of complicit intimacy

D/s can happen anywhere

D/s flourishes in an atmosphere of acceptance

D/s feels freeing

D/s is unbelievably fun

BDSM is an enjoyable adjunct to D/s?

If you do, we may well have a great deal to talk about


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Characteristics of the man I can imagine myself serving

He will value his honor.

He will be honest with himself, and me.

He will be unusually intelligent. This may mean highly educated but it may also mean self-educated.

He will probably be a political liberal.

He will be creative, whether in the artsy sense, or simply in the way that he thinks.

He will have a wicked sense of humor, laugh readily, exercise 'laughter control' by making me do it often, and be willing to be goofy, just because. Life, and D/s are joyful!

He will be undetectable by those not 'in the know'. He will appreciate that I am as well.

He will have an internal barometer of confidence.

He will be less concerned with the application of pain, than he is with absolute possession.

He will be prepared to dive into the deepest well of ownership.

He will feel worthy of deep devotion, absolute surrender, fierce loyalty, and 'submission with a vengeance'.

He will be possessed of a raging libido.

Ah yes, and a passion for intensity in all possible interpretations.

He will engage in the work of intimacy.

Being a water person is a strong plus as is being an 'urban rat'!

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I have many interests in- and out-side of BDSM. I will be happy to share the BDSM ones with you once we have gotten to know one another a bit better.

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12/24/2017 8:41:27 PM
“She would have thought a woman would have died of shame. Instead of which, the shame died.”
Lawrence

 

6/10/2011 9:45:55 PM

Strong, challenging, intelligent, confident, 'contradictory', extremely submissive.

 

Are those words you could use to describe the traits of submissive women you’ve reveled in controlling in the past?

 

Do you want to again?

 

I’d like that too.


6/23/2009 1:29:17 PM
Lately, i've been noticing that just about everybody over 40 has "20 - 30 years experience in 'the lifestlye'."

What i want to know is, 'where the heck were all these people when i was young and would gladly have succumbed to their charms'?

6/21/2009 9:57:10 AM
On geographic distance:

If i am the woman you wish to own and i feel you are the man who can master me, i would move to the ends of the earth.

i have crossed international borders, and learned another language for love, and i see no reason not to do it again, if you should choose to set my path.

In a related vein, your ethnicity or level of melanin is of absolutely no concern to me either as a positive or a negative.

6/16/2009 3:50:42 PM
"What I believe is that all those who seek to have it all, wind up finding nothing, while all those who want for nothing, find everything."
Lao Tzu

5/20/2009 12:09:30 PM
Where are all the true (real) slaves (subs)?

She's right here.  But she didn't call you Sir, so you dismissed her.
She can't.  She just can't call someone
she doesn't serve "Sir" or "Master", because the last time she uttered those
short little words, they howled out of her
soul
hurtling toward the one she honored by using them.

She's right here.  But when you asked her what her 'limits' are, she said "yours",
and you convinced yourself she was a fake.

She's right here.  Her abject subservience giving the lie to the caustic sense of humor which raised your skepticism.

She's right here.  But cannot sacrifice her ethics, even to serve you.  Even when she knows you would move her to her quick.

She's right here.  With smaller (bigger), looser (firmer) tits than those in your mind's eye as you drift into sleep.

Your lonely sleep.

She's right here.  But her hair is longer (shorter) than you like to grasp.

She's right here, But her ass is bigger (smaller) than every ass you've ever lusted after.

She's right here.  But her red hair has faded and is streaked with gray.

She's right here, but her hair is curly (straight) and you like it straight (curly).

She's right here.  In a modest skirt falling below her knees,
but the vision in your glasses
only reads
'thigh'.

She's right here.  In the practical
flat shoes the arthritis in her ankles demand she wear.
But stilettos are what make you hard.

She's right here.  But she can't kneel to you
(or anyone else)
because she's got bionic knees.

She's right here.  But she's the
180 degree
opposite
of every woman who's ever lured you in, only to later toss you out.

She's right here.  But even though she aches to serve you, she will tell you with tears in her voice if she knows that she cannot give you what you deserve.

She's right here.  But she's not really
interested in kink X which is your driving 'need'.  Better to endlessly hunt among the real fakes, leaving you
with neither her,
nor X.

She's right here.  But she's (thinner) fatter, (taller) shorter than your 'type'.  Even though she's willing to (gain) lose, wear flats (heels) if only you would take her.

She's right here.  And she knows to her depths, that she will serve you in ways you couldn't even imagine;  serve you into a frenzy of fulfillment. 

But you couldn't imagine them, and you didn't feel the spark.  So you remained unfulfilled among the fakes against whom you rail.

She "does nothing" for you.  Like  your first sip of single malt,
or your first cigar,
or your first taste of caviar.
She too, is an acquired taste.
But you're in a hurry.

She's uncommon, so, you think, she cannot be a true (real) slave (sub).  Even though it's the common ones, the ones who are as you would expect them to be, who disappoint, disillusion, hurt and frustrate every time.

She's not 'your type', so like moth to fire, you singe your heart bashing yourself against the flame again and again.

She's right here.  But you were looking at the hologram of greener pasture beyond the fence,
and you didn't notice her.

She neither looks, nor seems too good to be true.  But she is.

And she's right here.


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5/15/2009 9:00:55 AM
Allow me to answer the 'what do you want?' question:

A quiet life filled with the drama of serving one man.

5/10/2009 7:49:06 PM
If you would not say it to a woman you found attractive in the check-out line at the grocery, please don't say it to me in your first email.

i'm submissive AND i place a high value on being civilized.

8/15/2008 7:42:19 PM
"I'm looking for a submissive who."  WHO, not that.  That is for objects. 

The objectification comes later.

We now return you to your regularly scheduled profile perving.

4/23/2008 5:47:27 AM
Weirdest bumpersticker of the week:
"I love manboobs and I like to cry"
What the heck does that mean?  LOL

4/20/2008 4:42:54 PM
Best quote for today:  "I like my fruit ripe"

4/20/2008 8:36:25 AM
Two things:  One, my computer and the chat system within CM are incompatible.  If you'd like to chat, please let me know in an email, and we can do something on yahoo.
Two:  Friends network is not something I do, so if you invite me to yours, I won't be accepting. 


4/20/2008 8:11:03 AM
There is a lot of talk of 'fakes' on this site. Here is a clarification: I am only interested in a real-life, flesh to flesh relationship. Since Orville and Wilbur already invented the aeroplane, this doesn't mean I rule out someone from even a great distance as a potential partner.


There are plenty of other people who just want cyber interractions. To each his/her own.  If that is what you want, please seek out someone who shares your interest, and pass me right on by.

1/12/2006 4:23:59 PM

Since I have made the effort to create a rather complete profile, perhaps something more than a one-liner as an introduction would be in order.


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mistressaidda
 
 Age: 40
 Southeast, Florida