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I am known as TheDom1950 among friends in the lifestyle I live, it is not a game to Me, it's
Male Dominant, 56,  Swansea, South Carolina US

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 Dominant Male


 South Carolina

 5' 7"

 150 lbs





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I am known as TheDom1950 among friends in the lifestyle I live, it is not a game to Me, it's the way I live My life 24/7.

I live in Swansea, SC.  I am looking for female sub/slave/pet that is looking and willing to be trained as such. My ideal sub/slave/pet would be someone that is looking to learn what the Lifestyle is about along with the basics of living as a sub/slave/pet.

I am NOT interested in on-line, email, or web-cam relationships: I require physical contact. I am sensual, rather than cruel; erotic rather than titilating; sincere, rather than showy.
I enjoy bondage, TT, and various other forms of play. I like to explore the sensual aspects of bdsm, but don't find it necessary to brutalize My submissives to do so. I like to stimulate the mind and the soul, as well as the body.

If you are not reasonably local to Me, or planning to travel to My location, or if your plan is to overwhelm Me with frivolous emails, do not waste My time.

I'd like to share the philosophy of a Master/slave relationship, from SlaveCraft.
It is the genius of Masters to take pleasure from using us in various ways as Their mood and needs dictate. It is the genius of slaves to receive pleasure in being useful in the widest possible variety of ways. It is up to Masters to know what pleasures They want, not how we can deliver. That is our job.
Therefore, it is up to us to do the most we can to develop ourselves into the ultimate pleasure toys and tools for Them. I believe we owe this to Them. It is our slave capacity to provide pleasure and be otherwise useful that can earn us a place in Their worlds. We will then be able to keep up with Their appetites for pleasure and be useful.
All too rare are the Masters for whom "training" means something more than giving orders and correcting compliance. A sadly small percentage of the Masters i know savors the often delicately balanced orchestrations by which a slave does truly develop a deeper level of surrender under Their direction. These Masters delight in devising subtle situations and conversations that challenge and guide us. They watch us closely to see how we wrestle with our inner struggles with surrender, and then determine the best way to coax, tease, kiss, lure, argue, reason, support, reinforce, hurt, or love us onward past our sticking points and into doing or accepting exactly what They want from us.....AND, making us love them for it! This is the REAL craft of "slave -training", and lucky is the slave who comes to the attention of these rare Masters. Bonding with these Masters is vastly accelerated for us, and we often feel close to helpless before them.

If you have a desire to serve and spoil Me, reply with an intelligent and articulate email consisting of more than one line and include the reasonable minimal requirement of your name, a recent photo and written in a respectful tone to TheDom1950 at

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8/7/2014 12:56:47 AM
A Veteran is someone who at one point in their life wrote a blank check payable to the United States of America for an amount up to and including, their life. That is beyond honor and there are way too many people in this country who no longer remember that fact. Copy and paste this to your journal if you are a Veteran,... know a Veteran, Love a Veteran, or Support the Troops! May God Bless Them All, I too am a Veteran...

6/13/2014 12:12:04 AM
In Bloomington IL. till Saturday, will be at CornCon as a vendor, hope to see some of you there.
Then off to Milwaukee for SummerFest, 11 days of music, will be vending leather goods there as well.

6/25/2012 3:08:15 PM

Just to let everyone know, DuckStock was great, had a wonderful time there and I will be back next year as a vendor also.

There were a lot of people there of various lifestyles, furry's included.  The slip and slide saw some painful ups and downs but everyone survived and had fun. 

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