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Trans Submissive, 34,  Jamestown, North Dakota US

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 Submissive Trans


 North Dakota

 5' 7"

 180 lbs






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profile updated on 01-01-2017

I am only looking for Women & Trans-Women. Guys I am Sorry but I have been hurt a lot by Men in the last few years and I am no longer interested in your gender. I am now placing my hopes on finding a Women or Trans-Women to spend the rest of my life with someday (sooner rather then latter would be wonderful)!!

girl is a un-owned submissive. girl is looking for a Domme (female or trans) who might be willing to own girl and/or try a relationship with girl.
**WARNING**: Sydney University and all other institutions &/or individuals using this site or its associated sites for projects or personal - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy & will be subject to legal action.
**Please send girl a message before sending her a friend invite.**
This girls name is Nalani.

This girl is a Pre-op M2F Transgendered, has been working & living full time as a female for over 11 years now & started hormones on 10-12-2011. girl stands 5’7’’, has long blonde hair (currently died red) & lovely blue eyes. girls breast are currently a small B cup. girl can be very shy at first but tends to open up quickly. girl guides her life by the love in her heart & the lust in her mind (it's very dirty in there!! giggle). she's a girl in her mind and when she looks at herself in the mirror. ***girl is not a Sissy or a CD so if you want one of those then please look elsewhere.*** girls clit is only there for going to the bathroom, stays locked in its cage 24/7 except for hygiene reasons (start date 11-12-16) & for future owners use as far as she is concerned. girl is a 100% submissive bottom, that lives to serve & is happiest in a collar. girl never top's, Dom's or switch's. girl has tried it, but really don't like it. girl felt wrong & out of place in those roles.

girl lived her life from birth until I turned 25 pretending to be a guy (this was not by choice mind you). girl realized when she was 16 (maybe younger, but that is when girl began to understand her feelings better) that she was meant to be a girl & spent the years since learn the things about being a girl that she didn't learn when she was younger & theirs still stuff she need & want to learn but could use some help learning. So for girls own mental health she plans to have the SRS surgery when she can afford it (unless she get lucky & they start doing sex organ transplants).

girl had a car wreck in 2009 that screwed up her left arm & that side of my neck so when I play certain modifications must be made from time to time (girls injury is healed but has been known to act up from time to time, but this is rare now days).
***Lifestyles girl Is Involved In.***
girl has been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for about 18 years (please keep in mind the first 2 years, 16-18, girl spent researching on the internet) & have had Dom's, Domme's, & Master’s, Mistress's, boyfriend's, girlfriend's & lover's. girl even still talks to some of them & except for those who have burned or hurt girl over the years. girl still cares & loves the ones who treated her good very deeply because that is the kind of person girl is. If it wasn't for them girl would not have been able to keep trying to find a Mistress to own her. To those of you who are part of that group girl wish's to say thank you & that she will always love you no matter who she is with. girl has enjoyed every minute of the BDSM lifestyle & intend to continue being part of it for the foreseeable future.
girl is a diaper lover and wants to explore her adult baby side more!! girl's current favorite diapers are pull-ups style girls Goodnights(but that's more to do with the fact that girl can just buy those at the store) & pink themed DC Amor diapers. girl loves the way they feel when she wears them. girl has only pee in them when she has wet herself while sleeping in them. ~blush~ It is rare but girl has wet the bed from time to time. girl would love to try the full Adult Baby experience at least once someday.
**Spanking/Fisting/Big Toys**
girl loves to have my pussy (ass) played with! girl loves to have it spanked, fingered, fisted, stuffed with big toys, fucked (with cock or dildo) & eaten like the pussy it is!! girl is clean most (if not all) of the time for her own health.
**Puppy/Pony Girl**
girl is a puppy/pony girl! girl would love to be a little puppy or pony for her new Owner/Mistress. girl would love to be given baths, groomed & played with. girl would love to curl up at her New Owner/Mistress’s feet or in their lap. girl would be willing to be used for sex with other puppies &/or ponies. girl is still somewhat new to this lifestyle but really love it so far. girl tend to be more puppy girl then pony girl although this is changing as she learns more about being a pony girl. girl is also starting to turn into a hybrid puppy-pony girl.
**Rope Play**
girl loves to be tied up. Japanese rope bondage is girls favorite kind, but any kind of bondage works for girl. girl really loves the loss of control and the sense of helplessness when she is tied up! girl would love to try suspension as well someday.
**Little One/Age Play**
I am a little trans-babygirl! I love to dress in cute dresses, play with Mommy when I am a good girl and punished when I am a bad girl!

**Role Play**
The thought of being forcefully taken in a public place makes girl very horny! Being forced to have sex by someone she doesn't know (rape play, so girl would know the person in truth) is one of girls biggest fantasies. (this would be incest role play only) I always loved the idea of being used by a Mommy or Older Sister as their little sex toy! Having them teach her about sex the fun way!

**Forced Part Slut**
girl would love to be taken to a party (regular/swinger/BDSM) & be used by everyone there! Filling both of girls holes with cocks & dildos!!! girls ass spankied until it is good & red (maybe even more if her future Mistress would wish it)!!!
***Who girl Is***
girl is a goth/punk/grunge kind of girl that loves pink, dark red, dark green & black. girl is very feminine but can be a little tomboyish sometimes, although that tends to be when girl is at work at her current job or when she is sick (not want to get good clothes dirty although girl just tends to stay naked when she is sick), but what would you expect form a girl who has owned 2 Ford Ranger's (girl currently owns a Kia Spectra...wishes she had another Ranger) & was born in Texas! ~giggle~

girl loves leather, rubber, latex & lace. girl loves motorcycles, trucks & fast cars. girl loves tattoos (still wanting her first one) & piercings (just ears currently), hope to get more of both someday. girl loves to wear high heels (would love a pair of ballet calf boots someday), short skirts, tight jeans, tight tiny shorts (sadly hard to wear with cage on but if girl can get certain part of her male anatomy removed it will be easier to tuck her clit away and girl wont have so much issue with her clit getting hard), tight t shirts, tank tops & short low cut dress most of the time. girl tends to dress sweet, sexy or sometimes just plain slutty! girls favorite type of panties are thongs, G-strings, open butt panties or none at all!

girl has an addiction to Big Black Cocks (aka Queen of Spades, girl prefers them to be on Trans-Women, but girls New Mistress when she gets one would always come before girls love of BBC!!)) but any cock or dildo will do if its big enough (yes girl is a size queen)!

girl is not a push over. If someone wants her to do something she doesn't like (Small chance of that though girl is really opens minded!!!) she will say something. If it is something girl has never tried or something she never thought she would be interested in she will try it at least once. girl knows what she want from the people who are allowed to use her, but she is always willing to extend her limits.
*What girl Is looking for!*
I am looking for a Women to date and have a LTR with if possible.

girl is looking for Mistress/Domme/Mommy to serve. girl is looking to be a fulltime submissive/slave/pet/kajira for the right Women. girl is interested in a LTR if it should happen at some point.


I am looking for a Trans-Women to date and have a LTR with if possible.

girl is looking for a Trans-Women/Domme/Mommy to serve. girl is looking to be a fulltime submissive/slave/pet/kajira for the right Tran-Women. girl is interested in a LTR if it should happen at some point.


girl is interested in finding CD's & TV's to have as friends and maybe playmates.


girl is not looking for men at all. Not as friend, not as playmates and not for dating. To the Male Friends girl already has, she still likes you and wants to stay friends!!

Black men may have a chance to become friends or play partners but nothing more then that.
***Things That Drive Me Wild & Make Me Wet!!!***
* Love Big Cocks (9in+)!!!
* Big Black Cock (on Tran-Women)!!!
* Black Women & Tran-Women!!
* Smooth or well-trimmed pussy's!
* Big tits on girls & Trans (Keep in mind girl thinks all tits are sexy & fun)!
* Tattoos & piercings!
* Vampire & Werewolves!
* Cum (Women's, Tran-Women's!!
***Thing That Turn Me Off!***
* Hair nuts!
* Shit!
* People who don't read girls profile before sending her a message!!
* People who try to Dom girl in their first message!!

My safe word is ***RIBBIT***!

Journal Entries:
11/10/2017 4:28:03 PM
I am not a sissy. I am a transgender woman.

What is in my profile is not a hobby. I am not looking for some one to pay to fulfill a fantasy. What is in my profile is my goal in life. A goal I have been working toward for the last 10 years. I want to find an Owner/Mistress-Master/Caregiver-Mommy-Daddy That wants my for who I am, what I can offer & not because I pay them for it.

11/1/2014 4:00:51 AM
ok so I am have a birthday party on the 11th of November

Lucky's Bar & Lounge
2176 E Thayer Avenue
Bismarck, ND 58501

6:30 pm

3/15/2014 4:37:40 AM

This girl is currently offering Massage, Maid and Other Special Service. girl is doing so to pay a few small bills the she has. Prices and types of services can be discussed in private. This is only for the Katy/Houston area.

3/9/2014 9:54:13 AM

101 ideas to make Your slave feel Owned


(I have posted this with permission from a friend because I agree with it!!)

One of the main factors, for me in feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of Master’s/Mistresses control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of her submission, the deeper it becomes….and the more fulfilling. So here are some ideas You might want to try… And no matter what rules You decide to make Your own, please….be consistent. If You are unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules You make, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Master/Mistress who ignores her transgressions and does not exert Their Dominance.

1. Have her wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her submission.

2. When she has broken a rule, talk to her as You punish….and make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.

3. Make her take her shoes off every day as soon as she enters Your house.

4. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.

5. Have her call You each day at a specified time, no excuses.

6. Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.

7. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have her kneel before You and ask to accompany You upon the furniture.

8. Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to Your specifications.

9. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have her display herself whenever You come into the room…..legs spread, shirt
unbuttoned. No matter what position You take, she is to be sure Your view is unobstructed

10. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has an alternative title for You besides Master…..such as “my Love” etc.

11. Use her sexually in a rough, selfish way when You feel like it….interrupting whatever she was doing.

12. Chose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.

13. Have her crawl to bed each night.

14. Bring her a stuffed animal each time You go out of town.

15. Choose her clothing each day.

16. Have her get Your daily wardrobe ready for You the night before….laid out, ironed etc.

17. After punishment, have her kiss Your boots and thank You for loving her enough to correct her.

18. Have her bring a warm towel and wash and massage Your feet each day after work.

19. Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location) optional

20. Get her pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself).

21. Get her branded.

22. Respect, but push her limits.

23. Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.

24. Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.

25. Reward her by allowing her to please You sexually.

26. Supervise her workout routine.

27. Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with her Master, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank her Master for the privilege.

28. Have her polish Your boots weekly, on her knees at Your feet.

29. Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.

30. Giver her a writing assignment: “The definition of Pain – 1000 words”

31. Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission.

32. Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.

33. Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do….even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.

34. When appropriate, she is to speak when spoken to.

35. Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.

36. On occasion, share her.

37. When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.

38. Have her keep her body clean shaven at all times.

39. Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.

40. Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.

41. For transgressions: have her write Your name on the bottom of her foot and tell her to remember she is walking on You with each step. (This is harder to do that You might think….)

42. Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare…..

43. Give her reading assignments.

44. Test her on the reading assignments, to make sure she learned the appropriate lessons from each.

45. Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed

46. Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.

47. Reward her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.

48. Call her Your slut, Your pet, etc.

49. Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.

50. Work with her, having her do the things on the list (if possible), so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.

51. Sometimes, pamper her…..wash her body and hair, having her remain perfectly still as You turn her and move her about.

52. Hand feed her like a small child on occasion.

53. Have her eat from a dog bowl on occasion.

54. For transgressions: make her wear a sign to the next public function naming her crime. (ouch)

55. Praise her dedication when she has pleased You well.(this you do already…. i love it.

56. Instruct her that she is never to touch Your body without permission.

57. Have her write a meditation about her submission, devotion and trust in You….to be said aloud each night before falling asleep.

58. Some days allow her no clothing whatsoever (when practical).

59. For transgressions: deny her play. No pain for you, bad girl….hehehe.

60. In the same ilk, For transgressions: deny her orgasm…..give her sex, but she can’t cum.

61. For transgressions: Command that she is to be silent for a week. She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure You give as silently as possible.

62. Treat her like a pet in front of friends, making her present herself, turn herself, etc.

63. Giver her a writing assignment: “The definition of Obedience – 1000 words”

64. Have her wear a toe ring.

65. Tell her one morning that she must cum for You 15 times that day, and then write about the day.

66. Have her wear nipple clamps under her clothing out to dinner.

67. On Your birthday, let her receive Your spankings.

68. Spend time training her how to move gracefully to please You.

69. For transgressions: stand her in the corner like a 3 year old.

70. Always flog her after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.

71. Speak about her as if she were not present.

72. For transgressions: deny her any D/s at all for a week…..letting her do just as she pleases, not allowing her to serve You in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame her and certainly make her strive to please You when it is over and she is in her place again.

73. Defend her honor to those who would disrespect Your prized possession.

74. Pet her often.

75. Make her be webMistress for Your huge site, DallasBDSM. hehehehe

76. Whenever possible (i.e. no young-uns about), have her sleep in a cage.

77. Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to Your liking.

78. Teach her things….expand her knowledge…..

79. When You are away, call her and have her masturbate for You.

80. If You choose to play with others, make sure Your slave knows who is first in Your heart…..and that some things are just for her.

81. Remember her birthday.

82. Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.

83. Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day…..and make sure it is done by day’s end.

84. Teach her patience.

85. Videotape Your sessions and watch them together.

86. On long trips, have her wear double dildo latex underwear.

87. Hand feed her chocolate.

88. Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside, or the buckles buckled. Inspect them periodically.

89. Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book….let her slip for a while…thinking You are not noticing…..then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement.

90. Tickle her just because You can.

91. Have her be perfectly still and quiet while You bring her extreme pleasure…..when she moves or makes a sound punish her then return to the pleasure.

92. Keep her locked in her collar when You are home. You place it on her…..having her kneel. Wear the key to the lock around Your neck.

93. When possible, have her cook and serve Your dinner wearing nothing but an apron and collar.

94. Buy her a Polaroid camera and give her assignments to take pictures of herself for You in certain outfits or positions, etc.

95. Remember to kiss and caress away her tears.

96. Don’t be afraid to bring her to tears, for they are Yours as well.

97. Take her and the dog to the park, both on leashes.

98. Caress her, whisper into her ear that You love her, nibble on her belly, lick her thighs and make love to her until she cries.

99. Have her fall asleep with Your cock in her mouth and tell her You expect it to be there when You awake.

100. Occasionally, fulfill her fantasy.

101. Master’s word is the last word. #101 should be #1

This was from another source, but full of ideas. What are yours? What do you want to add?

2/6/2014 6:36:57 AM

Ok just so you all know up front I am not a new member, I am an old member (been on collarme since 7/19/2009) that had to make a new profile so she could change her username.

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