Returning to the prospects of the lifestyle have been away for numerous of years due to life's coplications and life changes I entered the lifestyle the first time quit by accident in good old msn chat rooms and I had a questioned asked to was I Dominant or submissive and at that point in time being a woman I could be both depending on whom I was with at the time. Boy does that sound lame to me now knowing what I know now but as I continued on I began a lot of searching for answers I chatted on line talked in msn messenger had a great support team had a lot of offers for on line to be collared I did have a special One on line for couple of years and I learned a lot about myself but in the end I knew I wanted to have the real life experience and he took me as far as I could go and we parted ways. So when I landed in Florida that's when I took it from on line to off line and met once again in a chat room One that spent the next 7 years with learning and being mentored by him. But life changes I moved and he did as well and distance became the issue. Although we stay in touch my yearning is still there.
So basically I am looking and long distant relationships of this lifestyle do not work for me. My life is stressful enough as it is. I do have hard limits will not cross for anyone and I feel getting to know some one first is better than jumping right in there so anything you can ask and I will answer respectively