I must apologize to all the submissives, that I've known through the years and have accused of trying to top from the bottom. I was wrong, and I truly apologize
I now understand that, for the most part, (of course, some of them were guilty) , they were just simply trying to help. in their mind. They think they're helping by presenting alternative plans, and actions as well as pointing out points that they think you might have missed. Again, trying to be good helpmates.
so to all of you in the past 40 years, I truly am sorry for my ignorance Peace out |