I have tried the submissive route but did not find it completely satisfying and have decided I am more a dominant personality. I enjoy my freedom and independence too much and also having my own thoughts which I do love to express.
In addition this is more, much more about me and my being in charge and doing the things that I want!
Rule 1 - If you contact me, please say something to get my interest. I am not looking to have my message box flooded with "Hi"
Rule 2 - What excites and interests me is intellectual dialogue so if you are incapable of that do not contact me.