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My love of skiing has at least for now won out over my love of sailing, so now I live south of Denver. And I can always get back to the ocean when I need a long voyage.
Male Dominant with more years of experience than I always care to admit, but always with a few guiding principles
1. Ds is not primarily about sex. It is about a very special kind of power relationship shared between people with complementary needs. Thinking about sex every time you think about Ds is like thinking of chocolate sundaes every time you think about food. That being said, Sm, or straightforward topping and bottoming is a different pursuit entirely, and one that I can both respect and enjoy. It pays to be clear on which one you are pursuing when, and a certain amount of self-knowledge goes a long way.
2. The world is not all that understanding about people like us. Therefore, I always take great pains to protect the vanilla lives of those I know, and NEVER do anything that would expose them to ridicule, job actions, or personal repercussions. Some of the best subs I have ever known were married women who needed discretion, and I respect their choices.
3. I am very polite and personable, but that should not be taken as an inability to play hard, very hard, when the conditions are right. Please look at the photo deck for more illustrations of this point. But if you do, remember that the pictures show where Ds relationships CAN go, not where they begin. These women were all serious players who knew precisely what they needed before they got it. I do not start beginners at such a point. I show the pictures solely in the interests of full disclosure. My interest range from corporal punishment for real or imagined transgressions, to personal management of intimate life choices, to a sincere love for hours spent wielding the cane, crop and whip.
I think that should do it for now. I welcome conversations (proviso one liners are not conversations) and explorations of mutual interests.
And while I certainly appreciate art, literature and the wisdom of the ages, and I understand the reluctance of some to post self-pictures I will be more impressed if your picture section does not consist exclusively of cartoons, copies of humorous posters, and quotations from Anais Nin.
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More trials of CS!!! Now I know why there haven't been any new members from Colorado for a couple of weeks. I referred an acquaintance who told me that the new member captcha will not recognize even correct entries, so no one can join. Mystery explained. |
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The spammers have hit CS! The spam is always from a different "account," so I'm sure it does no good to report it. We need a filter, like fet has, that prevents any account from sending more than a predetermined number of cold call messages in a day. I think fet's limit is 10 or so. |
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I need to work on my communication skills with bottoms. It seems lately that I have failed to connect with several bottoms who felt my profile was indicative of only wanting a deeply dedicated D/s, lifestyle submissive type of interaction. And that's not true. I have had relationships that were purely disciplinary, without sexual activity, and some of those worked out. More to the point, I have had top/bottom relationships that worked out just great. I don't have need for a totally dependent and passive submissive. In fact, I enjoy the company of strong women (prefer it, in fact) and have no real interest or desire in micromanaging or dominating every aspect of another's life. Sometimes S/m relationships work out that way, but sometimes they don't. And I hate to close off avenues of expression prematurely. So if any bottoms want to critique my profile, have at it - part of being a dominant is the ability to not only take, but to accept, sincere criticism. |
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So many claim to need "punishment," but seem reluctant to accept when it is offered. Too bad, because right now I think that a straight disciplinary relationship might be just what I need. |
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| Age: 25 |
| Nottinghamshire,
United Kingdom |
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