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I am a scientist, a volunteer, a humanist, and a loyal friend. I am sex positive, and kink positive, a student of life, and I still have so much to explore. I'm a nerd, certainly with beer and video games and proud of it! I'm not nor do I think I could ever be a vegan/vegetarian though I certainly don't object to others being so. I'm morally and fiscally liberal. I'm a feminist, intersectional ally, pro-choice, pro-Obamacare, and I think Americans deserve a more social democracy. I love a little healthy disagreement, and intelligent discussions. I find fulfillment and happiness in giving happiness, pleasure, comfort, safety, and love unto another. This is one of my needs, as important as my need to grow, strive for knowledge, and grasp at wisdom. The sort of D/s dynamics that I seek are akin to the relationship between yin and yang, at the same time complementary: equal, yet inverse. I believe that there is strength in submission given freely, and that submission requires strength and vulnerability, and has no correlation to weakness. D/s and S/M are both important to me. There is a majority portion of myself that loves giving submission and service. And I have a strong desire to suffer for those I adore. Most of the time pain is most desired and enjoyable to me when it is suffered for someone who receives gratification from my suffering. In this way I feel my masochism is closely linked with D/s, submitting to torture and suffering as a form of service. Giving pain is an expression of something beautiful. Accepting pain is likewise an expression of something beautiful. Devotional. To one another. There are two exceptions, where D/s really isn't required with respect to S/M. Some good pain leading to sex just increases perceived pleasure and can result in some great orgasms. And sometimes it just feels great to get a good spanking and a blissful endorphin rush. I'm a lover of rope bondage. I love the feeling of the rope, the feeling of being restrained and controlled. I love the intimate exchange of emotions and power through rope play. I have also discovered that I love giving these feelings to others seeking these experiences and feelings as well. My rope topping is very much so an expression of service for me. I really enjoy giving my partner what they want and experiencing that with them. I have also recently discovered that I enjoy and am gratified in giving pain that is desired and sought by partners who are masochists. While topping I have no desire to control or dominate, though power and feeling exchange through rope is lovely. Service is submission for me. I choose to whom I submit and give service to. And though not every time I open a door for someone it is service, when it is service, it is felt deeply and filled with meaning. About what I find enjoyable/entertaining, I like gaming, reading, watching movies/series, working out (lifting/HIIT{on a bike, because fuck running}), listening to music, skeet/clay shooting, scenic drives, ATVing, horseback riding, and fishing. As for specifics, I love intelligent sci-fi, absolutely love and have watched all of Star Trek TNG, DS9, TOS, Voyager, and ENT; I love Star Wars; Star Gate; and Fire Fly to name a few. I also enjoy gaming quite a lot. Currently I'm playing a couple of games with some good friends that I'm connected to and close with, primarily playing World of Warcraft and Overwatch, having enjoyed Star Trek Online, and Star Wars: the Old Republic in the past. I absolutely love RPGs (Skyrim/Oblivion, The Witcher 2 and 3, Mass Effect I II and III, Square Enix's Tomb Raiders, Dragon Age, Star Wars The Force Unleased I and II, Half Life series, Assassin's Creeds etc.), and in the past was very much into FPS (Call of Duty series, Battle Field 3, Wolfenstein: Enemy Territory, Return to Castle Wolfenstein, etc.). I was born and raised on a ranch, raising cattle and horses. I'm mild-mannered, and just a bit shy, and growing up the middle child in a somewhat large and noisy family, I enjoy listening more than talking. Feel welcome to write me with any questions about my interests, myself, or if you would like to get to know me better. Also feel free to drop me a line to tell me something about yourself.

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ImUrSLaVe554
 
 Age: 28
  Pennsylvania