hello all I'm a dom of 20 yrs experience and yes I do know the difference between a sub and a slave . However I'm always open to learning from my subs also I'm not so set in my ways that a subs suggestions are very valueable to me communication is of upmost importance to me yes I understand that trust is of the upmost importance also a subs and slaves submission is a gift not expected by the dom I also know the every sub & slave is different and there training is different with each person I tailor my training to the subs and slaves needs I realize that a happy sub or slave makes thing's more comfortable for the dom and the sub but at the same time the dom has to be able to read his sub's body language and above all else the subs honor the subs limits ! maybe pushing them a lil but if the sub says no more that's what they mean no I don't expect you to submit to me our first meaning above all else I respect a subs limits and needs yes I have a picture but I will send it to you if I see we have a mutual intrest and I do not expect you to send me a pic either until we have talked awhile and I DO NOT WANT TO SEE A PICTURE OF YOUR PRIVATES EITHER G - RATED PICS ARE FINE I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE OUTSIDE OF OHIO !!!!!