I've been living a trans lifestyle for over 20 years. Because of this I am aware of all stereotypes, headgames, and misconceptions against men and women like myself. It's 2017. Educate yourself. I used to lecture at colleges about being a trans woman. I am familiar with the psychology surrounding the lifestyle and those who are attracted to it. If you cannot treat me with anything other than respect, I have no time for you. I don't care much for labels and the boxes they put you in.
I will not be your submissive. I am not that girl. I have always been naturally dominant. It does NOT mean I want to fuck you in the ass or have you worship me. I AM NOT a stereotypical female domme and if your sole purpose for messaging me is to ask me to fuck you in the ass, humiliate you, or send you nudes privately, I will ignore you. I am currently being mentored by a wonderful Dominant in my area. I will not bottom to you or submit to you. Don't ask. The End.
I am an artist. I work from home.
My lifestyle, by most people's definition is a fetish in itself, but I don't see it as such. I just do what I do. I realize there's a huge taste for it, although for most men it's a passing curiosity. I'm old enough now to not buy into that and thusly my ability to see past bullshit is only outmatched by my ability to navigate around and away from it. Choose your words carefully.
While compliments are nice, I do not need to be worshipped or have my ass kissed endlessly to keep my attention. I prefer honesty to beating around the bush. I'll talk to just about anyone but only have a taste for cock; sorry ladies. Also, I am not interested in other trans women or CDs and TVs. I like men.
Triggers - being a gentleman, patience, Intelligence, tattoos, facial/body hair, glasses, deep voices, nerdiness, uninhibited sex, strong arms/shouders/hands, nice legs/feet, heavy shooters, a nice ass, black underwear that fits well, well-dressed men, light eyes/dark hair....
Turn offs - being pushy, covert narcissism, white knight syndrome, clinginess, selfishness, childishness, the need to be needed, emotionally unavailable manipulators, gross feet/unclipped toenails, timewasters, whining, dead fish in bed, lazy lovers, drug abuse, being a martyr, apathy, sloths, poor hygeine
Instant Deal Breakers: Lies, Infidelity, or Hitting me. Goddess help you if you do.