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tightsub79
Trans Slave, 37,  Nevada US

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 tightsub79

 Trans Slave

 Nevada

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 8"

 160 lbs

 37

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 05/16/17

 09/21/17

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A Poly Household

Read profile before contacting me :) Still seeking. A message to scammers... Don't even try, I see the truth very clearly.

Updated 9/11/17.

Trans woman (M2F). sub/slave. I do not have Skype -my smartphone is my only internet connection, it's a basic plan. Chat function not working with my phone. My time is valuable. I don't play games. Text, or live phone conversation is a good way to connect. You must show real interest, that means writing more than one or two sentences in a message. How could I possibly invest in something with little to no return. Writing is not difficult if real interest is involved. I shouldn't have to mention that, but I have to. It becomes obvious very quickly if a conversation is being one sided, that will be a big indicator of what is being presented. Gaps in communication over five days will be considered as lost interest towards me, and I will move on. It's my life, if I feel it will not be treated with value, I will not give it.

Starting a new life, looking for new prospects/possibilities. Will be starting HRT around October (2017). Non op, bisexual/pansexual. Looking for a Master/Dom to serve. Bondage, long term bondage. I feminize well. Versed with makeup. I'm adaptable, and enjoy being so.

I've been looking to submit for a nurturing Dom for a while. I know how to communicate/facilitate needs very well. I'm not into games, or drama. Not into put downs, or being overly critical. Must have positive outlook on life. I'm intuitive, and loyal. I must see a rational relationship blossom before I make major decisions concerning travel. I deserve an honest relationship, as I give my all.

38 yo. DDF. Have my own income, transportation. Have no ties/obligations. Average size cut. Long black hair, brown eyes. Five foot eight. I wrote in caucasian as my ethnicity, but am mostly native american. I have a strong connection to nature. I'm in a unique position to leave my past behind, and begin a new life. I only have the logistics to settle, depending on the situation.

Dana

(See journal entries for more of what makes me... Me.)

Journal Entries:
6/5/2017 9:12:07 PM
I know there are genuine people out there. Mostly taken because of the fact that they are a shining light in the lifestyle. Mostly taken -shucks. :) Shining light? Why do I say that? Whenever I get message after message from abusers, players, cheaters, liars, and frauds -now and then I see those who truly value the lifestyle. They understand the nurturing relationship of everything involved from power exchange. It really does give me hope, to keep searching. Not for a unicorn, just the missing half of me. Imagine, giving your life to someone, total control, and devotion. Your LIFE. The least you would want in return initially is at least a few sentences in an introduction. What does it matter where you do so? I don't have Skype, I'm right here, right now. Speaking of now... Now is the frame of time I live my life. I don't stack all my cards on a future I have no control over. I'm here, right now, I'm real. The here and now is where it all matters. It shows who you are just as well as words can -when you are sharing. Doing that simple thing is very first step to a relationship. A genuine relationship. Trying shortcuts is not acceptable, not when the true value of what is there is truly appreciated.

5/26/2017 7:05:39 PM
I wrote in a previous journal entry saying that I was not a masochist. I should explain that in better detail. I do have experience with the lifestyle. My first initial Master only had me for a few weeks. It was more of a probationary period in the sense that we were testing our compatibility respectively. He was a sadist. I learned a great deal from the time we shared. It didn't work in the end, but all the while there were no hard feelings at all. I learned that I have an extremely high pain threshold during flogging, and CBT. I learned that, overall I didn't enjoy pain, and I could not effectively make the power exchange flow. I learned that I didn't like being denied any kind of pleasure, even being bound. I felt too much like a piece of meat, and discovered that I needed nurturing, and security. From that experience, I discovered that I could not engage as a masochist in that way. I do expect to learn lessons. I expect to be disciplined so I may grow to be a better slave/sub. I expect to be denied pleasure in order to give pleasure, but... I want to feel like I am doing good by my Master/Dom with positive reinforcement. That way I feel whole. I had an experience with a CD Mistress. This individual lied to me about just about everything initially, and later wanted me to give entire control of my income. This person knew nothing about transgender issues, and refused to acknowledge them. I could not communicate effectively at all. Basically no real power exchange existed, only the hallmarks of a master manipulator, and scammer. From that experience, I learned a great deal about my own limits, needs, and safety. I also learned the traits of what a true Master/Dom excel at. I learned that TPE is a mutual gift between both/all involved in the relationship. What I need as a sub/slave is nurturing ownership. I want to be proud of being owned by my Master, it is my purpose. I want to be able to grow, and evolve.

5/26/2017 6:09:58 PM
Just a few more days. Well, it is on. :) I have a rough draft for my next road trip. It might stay rough for a couple reasons. One of them is based on a lesson I learned long ago... Plans don't always go accordingly. The other reason is that I want my trip to be flexible enough to go freestyle whenever I want. That is all good and well, but the main reason for my trip is that I'm leaving the Inland Northwest for good. Damn that feels good, just writing it. This trip will last all through this year, ending in early December. Oh yea, its an epic one for sure. I'm going to be a gypsy. Basically, I have from now, until December to try and find a kink relationship. Of coarse, if a friendship is made that could blossom into something serious, I will invest my time, and resources into developing it. If I can't find a match, I will find my own way. A lot of people don't truly understand what is at stake for transgender individuals simply looking for a decent life. We put in incredible amounts of ambition, work, and sacrifice with not much true security for the things we try so hard to accomplish. It amuses me when someone thinks I can drop all my shit on the spot to do, or be something for them with no basic understanding of the entire situation at hand. My transition comes first. I will not put my transition in jeopardy for anything. My new life comes first. I couldn't be a worthy sub/slave if I had no future. I intend on providing to the house that accepts me. Foremost... I need to escape from where I grew up. It has no opportunity for me. I'm not going to give in like damn near all the people from my old hometown. Reserved with the fact that "oh, this is the way it is, I'll just sacrifice my dreams just to get by." -Uh, not going happen. I have goals, dreams, and desires. I know I can get there because I have done the work. Doing the work, well... It actually works! I've come a LONG way. Getting away from the doom, and gloom is an incredible motivation booster. Seeing new things every day, going new places. Meeting people who have the same ambition I do. Holy fudge nipples Batman! I just need to jazz up my ride a bit. Minor maintenance, a canopy, a set of tires. My rig has 200k left in her. Should be on the road mid June. Now that is the power of the Juice Weasel. (Early 90's In Living Color reference). ;)

5/21/2017 10:35:32 PM
My path. I'm not a masochist. That's an important fact about my submissive identity. One of the reasons I have nearly all abandoned Fetlife is the general lack of responsibility. It's my opinion that said site engenders that lack of virture by its own design, and function. Not to say that all the users there lack that fundamental building block of any healthy relationship. The site is similar to another one, of the vanilla kind. I can't clearly see how something tailored to function from minimal investment, can inspire maximum effort amongst its users. Something that is basic essential building block of a true relationship. The heart of power exchange is giving the best you have -equally. That kind of brings me to the point of my entry here. My main experience from Fetlife has been that most people only see me as a fetish - a tranny. So on and so fourth. That may be all and well with others like me, but not me. I know that being a non op trans woman has inherent attributes that can be desired. I'm okay with that, I like being desired that way very much -but I am so much more than physical features. I'm a human being. I have feelings, needs, emotions. I haven't been on this site here very long, but I have read messages that are familiar. I'm looking for a true Dom (poly/couple). I will protect myself from what I feel is false or risky behaviour. That includes rudeness, implying dominance in an unequal manner, and or in a way that is not sanctioned. Messages demanding something from a profile that is blank (c'mon, really?). Married individuals cheating on their spouses (unbelievable). I'm intuitive, like anyone genuinely willing to give all of themselves to another, in my case a submissive to a Dom. Power exchange to me must be equal. I'm not a masochist. I'm not judging, I'm saying that is how I am built. I require love, discipline, nurturing, and dominance. How can a relationship grow without support from both sides of the power exchange (rhetorical). Communication is key. You can't communicate intricate details, or intentions with "loves," or "likes." You do that by putting in the effort with words. Investing in someone is to me the same thing as giving to them. Investing a single sentence and expecting someone like me to devote themselves is ludicrous. This is elementary. I like the fact this site seems to encourage effort an to be made. I try my best to make improvements of my own here. Anyhow, I think my journaling mojo is about used up for tonight. Thank you for reading :)

5/20/2017 8:49:17 PM
Very neat, a place for journal entries. I'll give my first one... This seems like a good way to express myself more here, a sort of fill in the blanks. I'll start with my current location. I'm in north Idaho right now, sort of going back and forth from my old home, to Nevada. Nevada is not my permanent choice to live, as I haven't decided where I want to go quite yet. I have a few choice places in mind, but frankly anywhere is better than Idaho. Well, almost anywhere. I'm in Idaho, or I should say back in Idaho for personal family reasons concerning my mother. My move out of Idaho is a set fixture for positive in the near future. Once I have my HRT established, I can roam free. That's my location situation in a nutshell. I had been away from my old hometown for many months. Traveling all over. Boy did coming back to OLD home come as a bitter pill. I'm talking about the way it is for trans people in this area. Enough about that though. What I want, hmm. I know one thing, my outlook is purely positive. The old days are the old ways -putting them behind me. I have the will, and the resources to change many things, but it all comes from having hope, and the desire to BE HAPPY. Happiness is a choice for me. I have something to give, that makes a genuine purpose along with being happy for me. Anyhow :) Oh boy... I think its time to use the sleeps now. Closing the journal.


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