Hi, This is Jim of Ally and Jim,

I love Ally and she loves me. But she has always wanted sexual things that I am not willing to consider. I do not want to degrade and humiliate the love of my life. I cannot do it. 

But Ally has needs I will never agree to meet, so she wanted us to come here. She makes it no secret that she was abused as a teenager by a bastard stepfather. And I know that has impacted her sexually. But knowing does not change it.

Basically she wants to find a dominant man to humiliate, use, and embarrass her. She says she wants what she call rough domination. I want to keep our marriage together. Ally has made it perfectly clear that if I cannot grant her this release she cannot stay with me.

So I am here, and she is here to meet and talk. Ally feels strongly that I have to agree to whomever she chooses and mind my own business when she connects. I have agreed. I am not a wimp, I just love my wife.

At any rate, either of us could be here online and if we are both home you can speak to the one you want to talk to. She does want someone close enough to meet regularly, so if you are across the country, that won't work for Ally.