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IUseTheCropAgain

I'm a well educated professional in the public eye. I possess my BS and MS degrees and a career that utilizes both. In my work environment, I'm engrossed in what I do, and enjoy it immensely. Outside my work, I calculate and work on my retirement projects, or research (which I enjoy when I can), or a doctorate thesis (all of it keeps the mind growing). I did several decades of volunteer wildlife rehab and relocation work, and I still work with wildlife whenever possible (as it keeps the heart fulfilled). I enjoy the outdoors, but have been decreasing my outings as I'm walking with a cane. My work provides me with financial stability, and my bills are paid automatically (saves me grief).

I have been described as a Shepherd type as I know how to provide viable direction, and criticism as needed, and positive feedback when guiding a sub/slave. Most do not realize that Ownership requires responsibility. Slaves are not just sex-toys or servants. Slaves require goals, as well as tasks and direction, to ensure their long-term viability, and mental/emotional stability. Slaves may not have any rights but what the Owner allows, and most slaves desire giving up decisions for/over themselves, but all desire positive growth and both short-term and long-term direction and guidance, so they can feel comfort and security in a productive and positive future with me (even if the sessions have them screaming in pain or joy, between their daily duties). Subs need goals as well so they can envision a positive future.

I keep my sadistic side in check, and allow it to flourish when desired but under a controlled environment. However, I also have an experimentor side, because I do enjoy testing limits (endurance limits, and extreme limits), but not just with pain; I also enjoy testing other sensations and emotions as well. When the sadistic side comes out, I do not start to enjoy a session until I've at least started on the third tool to use on the subject's body. I'm also very aware that the best scars are not left on the flesh. The best scars are the ones left on the mind during a physical sessions, which cause a physical reaction for days/weeks/months later when the mind drops it's guard and the hand checks the body spot on impulse, expecting the part of the flesh to be missing or damaged. The body can have scars left for days or a week, but the mind can have reaction scars left for months. Also, I do enjoy crawling into a slave's mind to find what causes her fears or insecurities, and why. The subconscious fears are more challenging to find than the conscious fears (as most subs/slaves do not even acknowledge the subconscious fears until it is presented in front of their face).

I am looking for a lifetime slave/submissive to do the housework, and help me get my home from where it is to how I have it envisioned. I need someone who can handle the domestic duties without being told (especially the daily duties), is able to cook, and can help keep the house growing. I want someone who will have children with me. I have kitties (all abandoned domestics, and re-domesticated by me), and some doves (inherited, but each with their own personality), so it you are also a pet type, you may find the home enjoyable. If you enjoy being hypnotized, that is a plus. I've dealt with both introverts and extroverts; clingers, brats, and the damaged, but what you are is less important than what you can do. I am looking for someone who seeks an Owner taking the time to actually dig into her mind and heart to get to know her before taking possession of her. I have no issue relocating the right individual (if needed), if you meet my criteria and we connect.

What am I Not looking for? I am Not looking for wannabes who think they can do some dishes and that's it. What I need is far more, and I will take the time to teest someone before bringing them to my house.


I am Not looking for little boys, pretending to be women online. They waste my time, and if they are too insecure to be honest in their profile, behavior, or photos, than they cannot be trusted for anything else.


I am not looking for male submissives. I filter everyone away, so do not think you can change my mind.

MistressPlumCN
 
 Age: 52
 Charlotte Area, North Carolina