I'm a married bottom on here just looking for friendship, intelligent conversations and maybe play dates. My wife is also a bottom and we have an understanding of our relationship wants/needs. I will never even consider being the 'Other Guy' that would cause you any issues in your relationship. So if you are also married, consider being open right at the start. You WILL meet myself and spouse before we get very far.
With all that said, I am more of a masochist and enjoy the pain that can be delivered by a sadistic top. I'm not looking for anything long term except for a great friendship. I love the interactions of a determined and imaginative Top. Just something about the gleam in her eyes and the sadistic giggles as she delivers the pain and we dance the play time away. I love creative and humorous interactions both in play and day to day banter.
Life is too short to drag our baggage around and drop it at each other's door. So please, let us just enjoy the brief interactions and let us become good friends.
I have been kicking around the BDSM community for more than half my life and really try to make a relationship special. I'm not much into being anyone's submissive. But that doesn't stop me from provided submissive services to my friends. Complicated, I know. So why not ask me to explain these comments?
I Look forward to building a great new relationship. How about you?