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ThinkingStone

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Im a quiet yet confident guy. Im active and alive - ill be out there doing stuff! Masters educated, and an athlete. Hobbies include the pering arts, cooking, and meditation. Im also an avid reader - ask me about my current read because i feel like im learning a lot every day!



My experience in this lifestyle has developed over the years. Ive been in a Ds relationship that lasted over 2 years, and have also met people for shorter encounters - some of us clicked, and some didnt. I dont sleep around- and this isnt about sex for me, its about so much more.



For me, this is about respecting the female essence with my submission, in a completely non worthless way. Ask me what youd like to know.
3/21/2018 7:43:49 AM
My first login today after 4 months, i feel like an outsider to the lifestyle. Maybe I’ll work my way back to the path.. :)
11/15/2017 9:35:14 AM
One invitation I wanted to share- when you find a partner, whomever it may be- Dom/sub, boy/girl, on this website or outside, you dont get the attractiveness and the kinks- you get the person behind them and those kinks. For example, my unique distinguishement is probably my self discipline and ability to develop. But when you get me as your sub, you will be disappointed if you only think of me as the the sub who has gone 2 months without an orgasm. Instead- when you get me, you get the boy who is capable of enduring self sacrifice for another cause. The orgasms, physicality and other things will come and go.
11/1/2017 2:13:52 AM
I hope everyone had a happy Halloween. Want to hear a scary fact? October was another month I didn't have an orgasm. That brings my total to 6 months in 2017 that have been orgasm free!
9/25/2017 10:07:40 AM
I think more women should try relationships with sub males. i realize there are different flavors of Doms and subs- Some offer themselves not as men but as 'pathetic losers'. But you may also encounter a masculine who - while accessible as a sex toy - maintains a male aura that appeals to the feminine desire. I've browsed the male sub profiles - there are some impressive physiques and good people out there.

My underlying point is- most women need a masculine aura, and I believe it is possible for a woman to soothe that need from a strong and sensual sub male.

A different update - I ended my period of abstinence at 101 days, and am attempting a more gradual monthly cycle. I have no regrets for ending my abstinence. I know I'm capable of keeping it in my pants again - which was the goal.
9/7/2017 11:16:26 AM
Two good things and one bad- 
good 1- it's my birthday weekend
good 2- I just reached my goal of 90 days orgasm free
bad- hurricane irna is fast approaching and I'm still in FL. Will probably have to brace for impact.
9/2/2017 9:55:19 AM
It's add feeling when it has been 85 days since your last orgasm, and you've been good. But you still wake up in the middle of the night, pretty much mid orgasm- ready for so much cum to ooze out in your pjs. But you have to clench hard and somehow hold in. 

It's almost like you woke up to a major tease and denial. Has anyone else experienced something like this?
8/25/2017 10:04:51 AM
About my service - i cook (Paleo) and clean. I've been on stage a lot and can perform fantastic strip shows for you and your friends. I've been to massage school and can give a mean deep tissue. I can beat your guy friends at sports. There's a lot I'm good at, and a lot more I'd like to improve at.
8/25/2017 9:34:39 AM
This is a simple search with complicated variables. I ache to edge for my Mistress. To ride the pleasure until it turns to torment and then beg for more of the same. D/s is a mosaic of kinks and people. Not everyone is the same. Not everyone needs the same things. I'm a submissive that wants to surrender the essence of his sexual being.

I don't think that being a Domina is equal to being a Bitch. Warmth and feminine energy are what I'm drawn to. The kind of energy and power that can flow from submissive to Domina can be sacred, intense and all encompassing.

-adapted from RideTheEdge4Me. I've never read something that resonated like this did.
LEIGH1278
 
 Age: 36
 Denver, Colorado