10/27/2017 6:25:34 AM: Mother Misery MusingsIf financial domination isn't for you, what makes you feel the need to come into my inbox to tell me that? Am I hurting you? Am I hurting anyone else? You wouldn't know, because you read two words and assumed everything about me as a person, instead of actually speaking to me. I get not understanding the kink, there are some kinks I just can't wrap my head around, but if you think there is genuinely no one out there who gets off on giving away their money, you're kidding yourself. There are thousands of people like that, and I see them every day, begging me to take their money and use it, and I don't always say yes, because it's not just about the money. It's about building a dynamic, and yes, some of the dynamics are more about money than others, but it's never 'just' about the money. If it was, I'd take on taken men who don't want their partners to know, and I don't. If it was just about the money, I'd take on irresponsible men who get in trouble with the law or who are just out of high school and don't really know how to manage their money yet, but I don't. If I only cared about the money, I wouldn't care if I can tolerate the other person in conversation, and I do care, a lot.I'm more than aware that this type of power exchange isn't for everyone. I'm more than aware that it'll likely always be stigmatized. I'm more than aware that there will always be people using it to make a quick buck instead of actually caring about their subs/slaves and building into their lives. I just invite people to try to look at all types of consensual power exchange as simply aspects of one's life, and not a means to condemn anyone who happens to be into said facet.Best Regards,Mother Misery

10/26/2017 6:49:23 AM: Mother Misery MusingsI want people (including subs, bottoms, slaves, etc) in my life that know what they want out of life, that know what they want from me. The clearer and more concise someone is about what they're looking for, the sooner I can determine if we're a good match, and the sooner you can be on your way looking for someone else or begin serving me. I can't stress this enough. If you're an s-type, be clear about what you're looking for. If you need certain kinks in your life, certain forms of power exchange, to feel fulfilled, say them, unabashedly. If you genuinely don't care how you're treated and you just want to know you're serving someone, say that too. I need to know, and the longer it takes to get to those answers, the more both of our time is wasted.Best Regards,Mother Misery

10/13/2017 7:21:49 PM: Mother Misery MusingsI think we all let the words of others get to us sometimes when they shouldn't. I think it's important to self examine why those words got to us, why they hurt. Did they hurt because they were true, because we fear that they are true, or because we don't want that person to think of us in that way? I will always encourage self-examination. While it's important to not overthink, or to get stuck in one's head, it's also important to be able to examine your inner mental workings in order to better yourself. With pain, comes information. If something hurts you emotional, that's telling you something about your values and your feelings. You can learn a lot by taking a good, long, look at it.Best Regards,Mother Misery

10/12/2017 8:55:55 PM: Mother Misery MusingsCommunication is hard. We have all these feelings inside of us that can keep us from speaking up when we should: jealousy, insecurity, self doubt, low self esteem, even self hatred. Still, regardless of how much it hurts, how hard it is to force the words out of our mouths, all relationships are better when you respectfully and patiently communicate with one another.Best Regards,Mother Misery