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I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. Anias Nin



Each contact with a human being is so rare, so precious, one should preserve it. Anais Nin




Im here to find friends with similar interests. And in looking for friends, I dont mean that I want to hook up with every man with a dick out there. I would like to meet someone near my age that I can be friends with first and see what happens as our friendship blossoms and grows. The people on my friends list are people ive chatted with over the years and feel a connection with (some i have actually met face to face also). So, if I dont know you, Im not accepting your friend request. I am still rcovering from a car accident that I had in 2021 and I don't get out and meet people. If you cant accept that, then you are not going to be a match for my friendship. I dont take to guilt trips, mind games, etc. I will be honest and respectful and expect the same from you.

This lifestyle is not based on sex for me, so please dont think Im an easy lay. Im not into oral sex either. Im not going to help you cheat on your wife, Im not going to pimp out my friends.

If youve made it this far and have any other questions, just ask and dont presume.

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2/8/2018 2:27:22 AM
Profiles.....

Profiles are written for a reason.  For me, my profile is written with the reader in mind.  My profile is my introduction to the reader, it states my reasons for being here, the things i like and need.  It took me some time to word it just right, i go back from time to time and change things or write more.  Yet, no one really reads them and just starts writing to me assuming that i want their intrusion into my world or my mind space.  Some even get mad and rude when i tell them what they are offering is not of interest to me.  Why can't you just read what i worked hard on to let you know what my interests and reasons for being here are and we could have saved all that rudeness.

Oh well, just my early morning ramblings.

2/2/2018 12:22:27 PM

So i'm sent a DM from someone about 18 years younger than me asking to pay me to go there and beat them, etc. i politely tell them i'm not interested and this what i get in return.....


its ok i thought somone as old as you would be a waist of time to message turn out i was right woman of your age are just to fucking old to have fun maybe you should find a sight like POF its for old ass cunts like you


i'm so happy to see that my faith in humanity was not let down. People are still rude even when you're nice to them.

Now wonder why i won't get attached to someone online.

UPDATE:  I am reading this again after a while and notice all the typos this young boy has and wonders why he can't get laid and has to offer to pay for it.


4/3/2011 7:46:48 AM

why do men feel the need to bully a woman into a relationship?

 

i just dealt with a guy that wanted an instant relationship after having dinner.

 

i don't get it.

 

what happened to getting to know someone before jumping into a relationship?


2/15/2010 8:48:02 AM
Gee, and now we have speaking ads when you open up the website.

I may not be able to visit here much longer.

1/25/2010 2:07:09 PM
Okay, so i visit here from work and i've always been proud of the fact that the profile pics weren't erotic and then today i refresh my page and i have this huge penis staring back at me.

my first thought on these pics are "Are you kidding me?  This is your best asset?"

YUCK

12/14/2009 1:50:24 PM
If you're here and you're married and you think a kink girlfriend on the side is cool, think about this....

would you want your daughter in that situation?

10/26/2009 10:49:07 AM
I absolutely hate being lied to.

7/12/2009 10:44:45 AM

First and foremost i think a D/s relationship is built on trust, respect and complete honesty with open communication between the parties.

i'm into monogamy, i'm not into multiple partners and i'd prefer my Dominant to be single and committed to me and only me (this includes the delusional man that thinks vanilla and D/s are separate worlds).

If i can't trust the Man i'm with, how can i submit my being to him? How can i trust him not to hurt me and to honor my safeword and my feelings?

i also do not think that a D/s relationship is bases entirely on sexual relations. To me, sex is an added bonus, an afterthought if you will. i was asked today if that were the case why are there so many sexual pics depicting D/s on the net? And then i thought, most of the pics i see on the profiles of my friends (here and other sites) are of their experiences in the dungeons or playspaces that they are at or have been in. Not as many are of sex. i don't understand how a relationship based on sex can be fulfilling and satisfying and last very long. i need more than a sexual connection with the man in my life; i need a bond, a commitment.

When i partner, i partner and give my all to that person.

Am i wrong in feeling this way? Is D/s really all about sex and nothing else? Can D/s happen without trust, honesty and respect?

i'm so damn confused lately.


1/21/2009 7:48:54 AM
Lies.....

Are we being honest with ourselves and others when we lie in our profiles and claim to be honest?

Is it a lie to not put the actual place we live, but an area close by?

How false is it to have several profiles and id's which contradict themselves?

Are we considered a fake/wannabe if we lead people on and never come through? 

Are we lying or being fake if we aren't true to the people we are surrounded by?

Should we not cast rocks until we look into our own world and see if we are the best we can be?

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Dsmaiden
 
 Age: 50
 Greenville, South Carolina