I am looking for a submissive/slave, ages 18 to 55. Physical appearance is not as important as the person inside, allthough long hair would be a plus. Intelligence is another big plus. The person must be open minded and willing to explore various styles.
My interests are many and my mood can be mercurial, not violent mind you. I may bind you and tease/pleasure you, or I may leave you in a corner tightly bound until I decide to play. I have been a dom for about 16 years now. Flings are not really my style, but being male, I can be tempted into one. A LTR is possible for the right person.
I have a very technicaly oriented mind and science is my religion. I love to keep up with the latest discoveries. I studied math and programming in college. I still dabble in both. My job is repairing and maintaining computers, which I find very satisfying.
I also enjoy nature. Long drives in the middle of nowhere and fishing are my therapies when life gets my nerves frazzled. I love to read, and listen to music
I am not going to bullshit you and pretend I'm rich or handsome. I work part time, and am considered working disabled. I have my share of baggage and expect the same in a sub/slave. My main baggage is rheumatoid arthritis. You would have to deal with what that brings, as do I.
8/28/2017 7:56:14 AM
Well decided to finally update my journal after finding Collarspace was Collarme's replacement. Much water has gone under the bridge in that time. Ups and downs in both physical and mental health. I've been taking xeljanz for my R.A. and it's doing fairly well in treating it. Lost my parent to "old age" a year and a half ago. She was 89 and it was a fairly easy and quick passing. I've been pretty well a hermit in the last few years and I think it's time for that to change somewhat.
2/23/2013 5:56:47 AM
Went to a private munch/play party last Saturday. I had a blast as did all who attended. The host came up with a kinky variant of chutes and ladders. The subs all went home with well marked bottoms and backs. I am very much looking forward to attending another one like that one. :)
2/18/2013 8:12:38 AM
well it's been over a year since I last wrote here. New, to me, car. More ups and downs in life. Over all not a bad year. The RA has been supressed to the point that it's progression is very slow. :) Still working at the same place, fixing computers. I had a nice 4 day vacation last summer driving up and down the Maine coast, 1100 miles total. I have reconnected with the "like minded" group that I had a hand in starting. North country social club, you can find it on, lol collarme won't let me post that site name. It's foxtrot eta tango lima iota foxetrot eta, lets see if that gets edited out Still unattached though. Any female subs looking for a geeky smart Dom out there? :)
11/14/2012 3:28:03 PM
Feeling pretty low. Wondering why I keep trying. Why should I wake up tomorrow? I have enough to live. I get up, eat, take meds, work, go home, and vegetate. I'm sick, body mind and soul. I'm so tired, tired of the struggle to survive. I feel so old, beaten, and broken. 50 years of life and 50 more to go. Why? why do I keep trying? I don't want much. Just someone to listen, someone to share the ups and downs of life. I can't be cured, but can seek succor. I yearn for solace. I yearn for peace.
10/15/2011 11:50:46 AM
Even better, I found out today that after treatment, I shouldn't spend time with groups of people. How's that for a kick in the ass!?