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This ad might be a little different than most on here. I am a submissively inclined male in my early 40s who has been playing, off-and-on, with SM since I became sexually active at age 17. Even though I love worshipping women, somewhere, over the years, I got confused and more and more of my BDSM relationships were about my sexual fantasies and pleasures. This has only led to further frustration for me, because it is a female led relationship and a womans control that really meets my deep submissive cravings. Consequently I now want to try to look for something different. I am seeking a woman interested in a long term, committed, female supremacist relationship. Ideally a Femme Domme marriage where the wife wears the pants and the sub hub follows her orders. Im a strong, intelligent, moderately successful, liberal-minded, slightly bohemian man who has been used to an independent lifestyle and taking care of myself. I know the adjustment to a subordinate status in an ongoing, committed relationship is going to be difficult for me, but I am seeking a woman strong enough to make use of my abilities and dominate a strong man. I have diverse experiences with SM play, but I feel that my interests should take a backseat to yours, so I will wait to explain more about them until such time as you inquire. I will share a rough outline of what my fantasy marriage is like, because I think it might be relevant, but I think its the fantasies and desires of the woman who chooses me that are truly important, not my own. For starters, I am interested in being sexually controlled. I have learned through past experiences that chastity makes me malleable. I would be particularly interested in discussions with a Domme who makes me wait for sex until after marriage. This isnt a deal breaker as Ive had plenty of premarital sex already and it doesnt necessarily mean that I think the Domme would be able to inspect her property or have me please her in other ways from the first time we meet on forward. While Ill be the first to admit that my Femme Domme fantasies have always tended to be primarily sexually driven, thats one aspect that Im willing to try to change at this point. So if there is a Domme wanna-be wife out there who requires permanent chastity etc. Thats also something Im willing to consider. I own a CB 2000 and have played with orgasm control before. If a chaste marriage is required, than I imagine my wedding night or collaring ceremony etc. might be the occasion on which I experience my Dommes strapon for the first time. I am nervous, but aroused, about the sort of legal arrangements I have read about on the internet, contracts, prenuptials, power of attorney agreements and the like. I would need a period of courtship and level of trust before I could commit to such an arrangement, but it is something that I would not only be willing, but actually desirous to enter into. While I am definitely not looking for a money Domme and am definitely not a cashpig, human ATM etc. I do believe that in a marriage with a sub male the wife should control the purse strings. I think the instilled dependence is probably a necessary part of the power exchange. Ideally, I would be hoping to continue to work outside the home, since I enjoy the interactions etc., but if my Domme were willing to financially support a live-in slave I would be open to that possibility as well. Assuming I did work outside the household, I would be happy to have my paychecks direct deposited into my wives account. If an interested Domme prefers me to manage the money another arrangement could always be made, such as presenting the books for inspection etc. In addition I would like to do as much of the housework as my partner desires. I am a good cook, having worked in restaurants when I was younger, and of course I can do laundry, dishes, basic house cleaning and some home repairs etc. I am also interested in providing more sensual services to my future Domme. I have been told I am a decent masseuse and I am pretty much insatiable orally. I naturally accept that in any Female-led relationship the woman, as head of the household, has the right to punish me in the manner of her choosing for any reason she desires, including, simply her pleasure. I am able to endure a fair amount of both physical pain and, if desired, humiliation play. I am particularly intrigued by the psychological aspects of play. And this is an area where I have not explored as often or as deeply as I would like to. I am interested in ideas about being reprogrammed and instructed, my behavior and thought permanently modified. Indeed this has constantly been the most stimulating element of my kinky fantasies. Some things I have imagined over my life a Feminist Mistress who gives me lessons in the history of the patriarchal oppression of women and makes me read academic texts, volunteer for womens groups etc. Similarly, I have imagined serving an African American Goddess who has me study black history, volunteer for civil rights and affirmative action causes etc. Finally, I have also been interested in the past in serving larger women. Some of my thoughts involve a BBW reconditioning me to only desire an ample woman such as herself. Usually this is through a combination of denial (chastity) and discipline. For instance during those infrequent occasions when i am allowed release, it is always while gazing on a BBW. At other times aversion therapy, cbt, whipping etc.., is applied to me while I am made to look at skinny girl porn etc. In my fantasy I am punished whenever my Mistress catches me staring at a skinny minnie and made to write essays praising the virtues of larger women and condemning societies beauty standards as shallow. I checked the box indicating that I am willing to relocate. But this is a qualified yes, I have a decent job here in New York State that I may be able to transfer in-state, but could not move out of state and keep. I am not without skills and own my home, which could potentially be sold, so I would not completely rule out out-of-state relocation for the right woman, but it wont happen overnight. I am more interested in someone who would be willing to relocate here, but I am serious in my search and dont want to rule any possibility out.

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MissMaryContrary
 
 Age: 19
  Oregon