I am looking for a committed, female-led long term relationship. If you believe that this is what you've seen in BDSM porn, you are mistaken. I don't wear corsets, high heels and stockings while cracking a whip.
A vanilla, on the outside and mostly on the inside, relationship is what I seek. Compatible vanilla interests are far more important than matching kinks and fetishes which can be discussed waaayyy down the road to developing a relationship. Please, if you don't like the idea of going slowly and being friends first DO NOT MESSAGE ME.
Simple.
A submissive male with a good career or a job with a salary that allows him to pay his bills and have money left over for enjoying life is what I seek. Your opinions and ideas are important to me. If you know much more about something than I do, I have no issue with letting you make the decisions involving those things.
If you see yourself as worthless, lowly, inferior or any other derogatory adjective please move on. I want a self-confident man.
I enjoy reading, movies, TV, museums, travel, dining out, cooking (when I have time) and am up for developing new interests. I'm not much of an outdoor person. Tried camping and fishing in my younger years and that was enough to last a lifetime. :)
Please be in my age range. That means between 50 and 60 years old.
Don't address me as "Mistress", "Goddess", "Superior One" or some other nonsensical title.
If your first message contains a phone number or IM address, is crude or tasteless, I will delete it. Be polite and tell me a little about yourself or ask a vanilla question if you want a response.
11/1/2017 4:05:42 PM
I'm an atheist so messages mentioning "god's will" or having "faith in god" that a relationship is meant to be doesn't impress me at all.
8/19/2011 3:00:06 PM
If you message me, do so in a way that will engage me in conversation. Messages such as "I want to serve you" or "Allow me to worship you" will be ignored.
3/31/2010 5:31:24 PM
"Never violate the sacredness of your individual self-respect." -Theophile Gautier
3/16/2009 4:50:28 PM
Married men: Don't contact me. I don't judge your need to satisfy your submissive urges but this Dominant does NOT want to get involved.
