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I welcome contact with anyone of a similar nature to mine. How you figure that out is up to you. Friends, like minds, or even a few simple shared anecdotes are most welcome. I assume this will eventually lead to a real life (live in) relatioinship. I will accept nothing less. You can find me on FL if you know where to look??



I came here to search for someone similar to me. Apparently I had some delusion that submissive women generally shunned and ridiculed by typical society would strive to improve themselves beyond what that society thought they were. If you are one of these ladies feel free to introduce yourself. I have no particular type of woman I am looking for beyond what I think should be obvious. Pleasing to my eye is all I need. What I require are intelligence, manners, sophistication, strength, spirit, and sedulousness, to name a few. I do not need a list of sexual exploits and perceived physical talents. At this point women should have more than enough experience to know how to please me well enough to start. Besides more often than not women have simply learned bad habits from men with limited experience. Its tedious breaking those habits.



I dont post pictures on this site. If you want to know what I look like there needs to be some intellectual compatibility first or its all a waste of time. If you manage to pique my interest I will tell you most anything you would like to know. I am much more open and honest than average people so not exposing myself upfront is simply my of privacy. I am an introvert so that should explain why.



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10/1/2012 2:20:05 PM

"Common sense" - at the moment I am quite positive it is the number one oxymoron of all time.  I doubt that will ever change.

 

At what point did people actively attempt to become less intellegent? 

 

I only write stuff like this here to vent.  It beats banging my head against a wall or punching a wall.  BTW something I did 15 years ago and broke my pinky. 


8/15/2012 4:32:12 PM

I would guess I am grumpy today.  Either that or the level of women on this site has fallen dramatically over the years.  If I were prone to believing what I read I would think most of the ladies here are looking for a fantasy and nothing more.  A conglomeration of cartoons, fictional characters, and porn actors.  I am sorry to inform you ladies I know plenty of men and not one of them will ever meet what you expect.  You will be happy for a time but it will not last as part of you will "fill in the blanks" until you can't take it anymore.  What happened to all the advice columns that informed you how to be in a great relationship?  Yet here we are still seeking.  I imagine you are more angry than curious and that would be the problem.  See things for what they really are.  Be a bit coy to drag out the information you seek.  Women used to be good at that until some feminist told you you were better than men.  Ha, if you did not know that already you screwed up double.  Most women are smarter than men.  Didn't expect that one did you?  It is true but it all depends on how you define smart.  Women used to be able to get what they wanted.  Now all I see are the demands of spoiled brats stomping their feet when they can't have their fantasy.  Not much of a point just disappointed in how "submissive" women have become. (Figure it out yet?)


12/4/2011 7:12:21 AM

I think I hit the hide and block buttons the most.  I am beginning to wonder if the majority of "submissive" women are here for some odd version of escapism that I do not fully comprehend.

 

If you have any interest in this profile and think I might be a ticket out of your current crap life (because you believe you have no control over yourself) there is no reason for any contact.


8/27/2011 10:01:42 AM

A female submissive friend was still trying to fully understand my sadism.  I explained it like this "I can make you bleed tears, and cry blood if that is what gets you off.  I will have no ill effects from the encounter, and I am capable of holding on to you through all the pain and anquish you go through, and I will enjoy every minute of it"  (Evil smirk that induces a mind fuck paranoia follows this statement)
I am in touch with my sadism, get in touch with your masochism and we can have fun.  If not, I am okay with that, but you will always wonder what you missed by opting out.

 

NOTE: I do not enjoy blood play, above is only the way I explained it to her, context people.


8/26/2011 2:03:10 PM

I received yet another email today with pictures of animals with bits of popular psychology linked to them.  I am wondering at what point humans began becoming more emotionally invested in images of animals with human ideals attached to them than to actual interpersonal relationships.  It's is called anthropomorphism

/ˌanTHrəpəˈmôrˌfizəm/ The attribution of human characteristics or behavior to a dog, animal, or object.  I understand they are cute fuzzy creatures but why do you trade away your humanity for a brief emotion?  I am often accused of being emotionally challenged, but I do not misplace my emotions from a human to a creature.  I like critters just fine, I am good with them and I value them, however I refuse to convert my compassions for people to a misguided effort to have some fun on the internet.  Learn the word people.  Know what it means so you can start making a real difference.

 

http://anthropomorphism.org/


8/26/2011 10:29:44 AM

What I need / want - A lady, submissive / slave, for a combination TPE, Daddy/ Babygirl, OP, IE relationship.  This is not a lifestyle choice, this is simply who we are.  If these do not make sense to you I am certain we are not compatible.  Do not be hung up on any definitions as I have been busting the normal door wide open my whole life, I might as well be comfortable with it at home.  I am also a sadist, an extremely clever one at that.  I ask that you throw out your definitions as they will only get in my way when I finally have you.  I am very comfortable defining details as I go along.  If you are concerned that I might not be the type of man you seek that may be valid but not because I am not who I know I am.  (It was written that way on purpose, only a few will know how to bend their brains around it)


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