Magic is all around us, with the right point of view, it is all a matter of perspective.
The process of training a Sub/Slave is about altering perspective, developing Rituals that condition the mind and body to respond in a desired fashion, in this I see Magic and Beauty.
I have been in this lifestyle for 19 years now, have trained both Subs and Slaves, have learned a lot but have never given up learning more. One thing that I have learned recently is that I have a strong need in my life for Ritual, regularity, consistency. I am seeking a Slave/Sub to train to fill this need, developing Rituals and behavior so that when we retreat into this home we can leave behind the outside world. Now, I am not an unrealistic person, I have lived a 24/7 lifestyle before and I realize that there will be times that reality will intrude, it has to, I just long to minimize this intrusion.
I am very set in my ways, slow to change, Methodical in my processes. It was said that the Plains Indians would never make a decision without taking the Fourth generation after them into consideration, I am like that, I like to take my time and think a thing through. This is how I am with a Sub or Slave. I like to take my time and plan out what will happen. Now, this is not to say that I cannot be spontaneous, it is not uncommon for me to get a wild hair and want to run off, sometimes a state or two away, and do something just because.
I like to take care of those in my life, I am Very protective by nature and do my best to insure that they are happy healthy and whole. am I 100% successful in this all the time? No, but I would like to meet the person who is and either learn their secrets, or smack them upside the head for making us mere Mortals look bad.
I am a Stickler for honor and honesty, I am an open minded man and have yet to find anything that I cannot be accepting of so go ahead and tell me, I would rather hear the truth than find out later you have lied to me, I view a lie as a betrayal. That being said, in the spirit of Full Disclosure,and in the spirit of full disclosure, I am currently in the process of a Divorce and hope to have it finalized soon.