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playfulKismet

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Thanks for stopping by my profile in my corner of collarspace. Since you have stopped by let me tell you a bit about myself.

Im looking for many things, but the one that I desire more than anything is a Dom that can fulfill my kinky dreams. Someone who is a gentleman looking for a princess by day and a naughty girl in need of a caning by night. Someone who understands that all important concept that respect is earned not just given because of how we identify ourselves within the community. I enjoy structure dont get me wrong, however I do not think that I am 247 material. I have too many opinions for it to be comfortable for either of us to try and live up to that high standard.

My late husband was my first regular play in the lifestyle before then it had been occasional play at parties and dungeons. He was the one who helped me explore and become the person I am now. I found that I do love good pain, whether it is breast torture or a good paddling andor caning. However I do not enjoy it pain all the time. Sometimes I need cuddles rather than pain and I learned to ask for what I need rather than expecting someone to just know what I need.

Excellent Doms help a sub grow and find themselves like he did for me.

This lifestyle takes trust to make it work and be enjoyable for those participating. So can I trust you? The only way to find out is to take a chance and show me that I can. I am not your slut, whore, or slave... at least not yet.

So let me know if I should invite you into my corner and show you why it is worth the effort to invite me into yours.

It is up to you.

I feel like I need to add a post here. I am not looking for online or long distance. I am a touch junkie the mental aspects dont draw me the way the physical ones do. I also am a bit picky about age and all that, I do my best to take care of my body and want someone who does as well. And if I dont respond dont take it the wrong way you may have found your way into my bulk folder. Which I dont really check. Or because I am updating my profile I wont be able to respond till it get approved. Since I am in the process of moving be a bit patient.

It is only when you make me suffer that I feel safe and secure. You should never have agreed to be a god for me if you were afraid to assume the duties of a god, and we all know that they are not as tender as all that. You have already seen me cry. Now you must learn to relish my tears. Story of O Pauline Reage

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99 Rope bunny
98 Submissive
97 Masochist
96 Degradee
93 Experimentalist
89 Non-monogamist
87 Primal (Prey)
85 Pet
83 Brat
81 Exhibitionist
72 Voyeur
4/6/2018 3:28:32 PM
Thinking of going to Flavors tonight assuming that the weather doesn't get too bad
3/21/2018 12:59:07 PM
I feel that after having checked my bulk mail box that I should put a warning out there if I don't respond it might be because I never saw the message. Have my parameters pretty tight to 10+/- years and male. I do try to respond to those I get as long as it isn't for online nonsense. Read my profile please that is all I ask before throwing a wobbly because I didn't respond.
3/21/2018 8:42:30 AM
I hate being sick, really hate it. I turn into such a whiney bitchy pain and have no one but the dog to annoy. Not to mention that the fridge is entirely too far from my bed. Thinking that the only solution is to move the bed by the fridge or the fridge by the bed. Haven't decided which yet maybe after I take another nap and some more medicine I will see about rectifying this particular problem.
3/11/2018 6:04:49 PM
Okay had it pointed out to me something and given there is no way to choose bottom thought I should put it here. I am a bottom not a sub and most definitely not a slave.
3/4/2018 7:15:53 PM
So figuring out Kansas City is really into rope. Like really into rope and not so much into impact play. Always been intrigued by rope but really need impact play so not sure what to make of it all.
12/13/2017 1:04:43 PM
Okay at least say something blocking someone in the middle of a conversation is the cowards way out. Just say hey I don't like you or I don't want to speak to you. It is simple.
6/29/2016 6:59:08 PM
Seems like I seem to be able to say the wrong thing constantly. So apologizing in advance to anyone if I manage to say something that appears to be me sticking my foot in my mouth.
6/27/2016 12:01:24 AM
We are often so much more than what we seem why does it seem we hide so much of ourselves without realizing it and when others don't see it we take it so much to heart? Or why do we think that people will bother when they only see you in a particular light because of how hard it is to appear as not only your submissive self but your public self?
2/11/2015 5:47:38 AM
It is always the issue that on some level you have to be a bit agressive to stand out and get a response here. But that seems to rub some Doms the wrong way.It is a bit sad that sometimes your damned if you do and damned if you don't.
2/7/2015 5:17:25 PM
So here is the thing it has been long enough now the idea of a fleeting brush of finger tips on my cheek have reached such erotic proportions that getting through the day sucks. But this does not mean I will jump into bed with the first person to say something slightly kinky to me. 
bifemfun77
 
 Age: 29
  Arizona