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The brief version-- Hi, I am an experienced 40 year old male Dom in the San Francisco Bay Area looking for a new sub or slave. An experienced sub is appreciated but not a must, as I would need to train you to me either way. I am highly educated, professional, and successful in my chosen career--but there is so much more to life (and to me) than that. I am 5ft 9in, with olive skin, short dark brown hair, and big brown eyes.
For those who wish to read more-- I want to make clear that I am not looking for online-only. Anything we talk about or do now would be with the intention of moving towards real life, in-person interactions in the future. However, I understand that this can take time and will move at a pace that is agreeable to us both. you will find me to be strict and demanding of you, but I am largely reasonable and always sane (people on here who want to permanently physically harm others are either living in fantasy or are psychopaths--youll find that I am neither). I will push you to explore new things and may even push up against your limits at times, but I will always want you to be comfortable with what we do and say...well, until I determine that you need to be decidedly uncomfortable.
A quick primer on how I view D-s in general its not about power, weakness, or abuse--rather, I see D-s as an expression of mutual trust. you must trust that I will care for your needs (eg, structure, control, tenderness, emotional grounding, rough sex, punishment, or whatever that may include--thats what I learn about you as I train you), and I must trust that you will care for my needs. With this mutual trust, we can get to true D-s. Anyone can beat up someone else, and unfortunately, thats what many online Doms think D-s is about. Even true punishment does not always come in physical fo.rm, for the mind is as important--if not more--than the body. Were I to be your Dom, I would know every inch of you--both your body and your mind.
Potential experiences that we have together will be private and intimate. I do not kiss and tell (unless black.mail is a specific fantasy of yours), as your privacy is important to me. Similarly, I have a public career that I must protect above all else. While I am not embarrassed about what interests me or who I am, I would only discuss this lifestyle with those closest to me, not my professional colleagues or patients. So, as with many things in life, discretion is important.
I could say much more, but I will wait to hear from you before I do. If you are interested in learning more about me or what it would be like to be mine, you may contact me. I look forward to hearing from you...
PS-- Forgive the grammar--certain characters are not allowed here, like colons, semicolons, apostrophes, etc.
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