1/17/2024 8:15:45 PM: Let me tell you something, folks. Covid is not a joke. If you're one of those conspiracy folks or an anti vaxxer, I want nothing to do with you. It is brutal.

10/18/2023 3:15:02 PM: There are a few things I feel I must clarify. When I say that sex and sexuality are a huge part of service/submission, I mean as a tool used to control me...to humiliate me. I do NOT mean for my gratification. It was very much a large part of my initial exposure to BDSM, sexual humiliation...and it has stayed with me through the years, but has never been about me being sated. It is purely about my dom/domme's pleasure. I serve at their discretion. Sex and sexuality are a tool. There are a lot of folks for whom it's about their orgasm. That is not me.

5/5/2023 7:01:37 PM: I am less and less impressed with doms on this site. I keep seeing all these profiles about 'there are so many game players!!!' and 'I'm looking for something REAL!!!'...'I don't tolerate LIARS!!!' So ok...you're intolerant of game players, sick of liars. I tell you the truth. I am right up front with the good, the bad, the ugly. You can read through my journal and see that. I understand I am not anyone's idea of physical perfection. I've stated that over and over again. So we get to a certain point, you're impressed with how much I seem to understand the role of a sub/slave...and then...despite this, boom...you suddenly ghost. No explanation, no response...just. ghost. I understand that you're playing the role of the big bad dom and you have to maintain this BS, including a first email saying something like 'KNEEL SLAVE!!' right off the bat instead of a 'hey...how are you? Nice profile...etc.' However, it's simple human decency...'I'm sorry, you're very cool, but I don't feel like you're something I'm looking for.' Especially after a slew of messages back and forth.If you're tired of liars and game players, then don't be one of the fools lying or playing games and wasting peoples' time and emotions.

5/2/2023 8:29:49 PM: Let the next ghoster step forward!

4/18/2023 8:04:13 PM: I can more clearly understand why people lie on the web and on this site. Telling the truth often gets you virtually ghosted early, no matter how much people say it doesn't matter. Lying, on the other hand, gives you the option of dealing with it when it comes out, which it always does. I guess then you count on the other person saying 'oh, well...it's not that big of a deal.' There's no real reward either way, so... Oh, and I'm not 49 like my profile apparently says. I'm 53. If I make a move to change it, it'll probably lock me out for 6 months. And I'm not sure where my journal entries from 2023 went, but anyway...People really do suck