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dayangurduja
Hetero Female, 39, Visayas, Philippines 
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dayangurduja

I am looking for a real lifestyle slaves. These potential slaves can either be 1. A long distance partial / part-time slave – This is ideal for those who cannot relocate. However, I will require a regular courtesy call - which means you flying to my side of the world to see me. He will be micromanaged and controlled. He will direct his labor and resources to my upkeep and lifestyle, as an extension of his devotion. He will also be required to perform some services for me (an example is the maintenance of my website, among others; if he is not a tech person he can always pay a web designer of my choice). During scheduled visits, he will be required to perform assigned chores. All these, of course after a due period of the application process with me, where I train you and mold you to my desired services. 2. a full-time lifestyle service slave - a slave who will be trained to serve me for my convenience. The service slave will have to relocate. Naturally, a period of training will be in place to train the slave to know my taste, my needs, and preferences. Ideally, my service slave will have to be financially stable or independent. He should be single or divorced. He should have no kids to raise. He should be healthy, has the means of financially supporting himself, and must have a health insurance. I live a healthy lifestyle so I prefer that he does, or if he doesn't then he must be ready to follow my healthy eating, balanced lifestyle, and physical exercises.

 

I will have no sexual contact with my slaves. I think I have to make that clear.

 

Now something more about me I seek to build an online, and later on a real-life connection for both types of slaves. The connection will ideally be the basis to progress into another level and area of D/s relationship. I am not going in the ownership direction if I do not know my potential slave well enough; if I am not interested in him; or if I do not genuinely care for him.

 

My domination is in the direction of mental submission. I am very educated and will prefer slaves who are educated and can converse beyond the typical one-liners. I am 39 years old and married to a German who knows about my Dominant nature and bdsm interests . He is very supportive of it, but he is not into it. We have no children, by conscious decision. I am a naturally born dominant. I came from families where women hold and control the purse and decision making. Both my maternal and paternal grandmothers were head of the families. My aunts on both sides inherited the role. I grew up seeing uncles and uncles in law relegated as followers and implementers of decisions made by women. Dominating men and being in control of their lives was an atmosphere I grew up in. It is natural for me. I consider it normal.

 

My twitter link :https://twitter.com/QueenUrduja/status/924445270665916416

 

on Facebook I am : Dayang Urduja

 

 

 

10/18/2017 3:23:54 PM: My Style of Domination   Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far. -Theodore Roosevelt My style of domination is comprised almost entirely of intellectual stimulation and mental manipulation. You will find that I command you with calm and poise, never with shouts and stomps. I still say ‘please’ and ‘thank you,’ and when I do so, I expect you to obey without question. All subjects are expected to be service-oriented and useful to me. Usefulness is tangible; it is scrubbing the floor, massaging my feet, waiting on me at home, taking me out for dinner, or bringing me gifts, just to name a few things. Those who do not revel in devotional acts of usefulness are not welcome to serve. CONSENSUAL SLAVERY I prefer my subjects to in-person contacts, exceptions can be made for contacts nurtured online where the applicant proved exceptional. Online connections require extra effort on the part of the subject to maintain and nurture my interest in you. Technology has afforded us the means to be in touch despite border. A subject should know how to exploit online resources to maintain communication. All contacts are geared toward long-term service and collaring. Those who are awarded my collar willingly offer themselves to me as genuine slaves. Training continues until I determine the subject is ready to make a long-term commitment. Collared subjects remain in my service until dismissed, upon the agreement of both parties. BEHAVIORAL MODIFICATION All males taken into my service begin as excellent subjects with an implicit desire to serve and please. Nevertheless, all subjects must be deprogrammed to remove residual undesirable traits. These traits vary among individuals, but are commonly related to willfulness and entitlement issues. Subjects will undergo individualized training to optimize attitude, obedience, fidelity, and devotion. CORPORAL PUNISHMENT physical punishment, as flogging, inflicted on the body of one convicted of a crime (source) As Domina, I reserve the right to utilize corporal punishment as a form of correction, as a means to achieve behavioral modification, or according to my whims in any way I see fit. When I do so, punishment is severe, often creative, and designed to cause varying degrees of pain without permanent harm. However, physical ordeals are not my primary method of domination. DOMESTIC SERVITUDE Most typical forms of service I require are classified as domestic servitude. They might include household chores, running errands with or for me, or waiting on me hand and foot while I am at home. A domestic servant will be trained to perform household duties according to my exact specifications and will generally perform those duties under my supervision. Note that although interactions tend to be domestic in nature, they do not constitute a typical “female lead relationship.” Subjects are not invited to live in my home, and they do not become my sexual or romantic partners. CHASTITY Chastity is required, in varying degrees, for all of my long-term subjects. For most subjects, simply refraining from sexual contact with others is sufficient to produce the desired level of devotion. I do not accept into my service any male who cannot be trusted to control his urges and be honest about his behavior. Therefore, most subjects will not require a chastity device. Complete chastity is utilized in some instances according to need. Reasons for complete chastity could be to reduce frequency of compulsive masturbation, prevent instances of indiscretion, or as punishment. In such cases, a chastity device is to be utilized according to my specific protocol. FINANCIAL DOMINATION Financial domination is a natural extension of the total devotion that any collared subject must exhibit. When a man gives freely of himself, his entire being offered up to the service of his Domina, all of his resources are also at her disposal. It is natural for him to wish to serve her and provide for her in all ways, from offering his labor in service of her household, to contributing from his pocket to enhance her life whenever possible. In some instances, a tithe schedule may be implemented in order to facilitate household contributions. However, in most cases, tributes are required only on a case by case basis. ONLINE DOMINATION Those who cannot serve in person as a result of distance and/or financial limitations nevertheless strive toward the highest form of servitude that can be expected. Lack of face-to-face contact generally does not result in a collared arrangement, although complete slavery may not be impossible in some cases. Exceptional candidates overseas can be placed in a structured arrangement, which may result to a  collared ownership in the future. Online domination is a viable option for exceptional candidates only. In such cases, more structured “sessions” are to be scheduled to ensure both parties availability, but they do not follow always end up into collaring, and are not paid hourly. Typically, a tribute is collected for each online session to make that session serve some utility for me.  

10/18/2017 3:12:23 PM: Requirements:  All potential slaves must possess the following characteristics: The desire to be useful and loyal to me as Domina. Being of the mindset that finds motivation in devotional acts for no purpose beyond satisfying the wishes of me as Domina. Willingness to submit to tasks, ordeals, and assignments of my design and choosing, in order to mold the subject into his best self. Willingness to obey my commands without question or objection. A joy in the completion of work and the achievement of structured goals. All potential slaves must possess the following general characteristics: Physically fit enough to stand, walk, carry items that are reasonably heavy (such as shopping bags), and sit quietly without moving until instructed otherwise. Capable of reading and understanding written passages, and of asking for clarification where necessary. Capable of understanding and carrying out basic instructions precisely and efficiently. Capable of communicating his own wants and needs in a manner that is clear and precise. All potential slaves must have access to the following: Reliable transportation, be it the subject’s own vehicle, or the ability to pay for a taxi, etc. A cell phone that can be used for phone calls as well as text messages. An email address that is checked regularly. A computer or other device that allows the potential slave to access Google documents, an online calendar, and other online resources. Financial stability and independence  

10/16/2017 3:22:34 AM: I have been a practicing Domina for several years. A lifestyle Domina if you will. My style of FemDom is not about degradation; it is not degrading to submit to a superior Woman. The training I provide sculpts the man into his best self: strong, disciplined, poised, well-polished, and proud to be of excellent service to his Goddess. I do not accept poor specimens. You must be smart, fit, competent, and obedient. Come ready to serve, or not at all. I do not offer any 'services,' dungeon or otherwise. Males serve me, at my pleasure ONLY. I specialize in: Consensual slavery Goddess worship Domestic servitude Financial domination Behavioral modification Chastity Please note: v  I'm straight. v  No, I won't fuck you. I do not make my slaves as sexual partners v  I probably won't ever touch you except with my paddle. v  I do not tolerate brattiness or boundary pushing. v  Paid sessions are not available. v  I am happily married to my vanilla husband and I have no children by choice v  No Doms. v  I do not accept sissies. v  No female subjects. v  No forced gay or other forms of sexual coercion. v  No blood, bodily fluids or grave physical harm. v  Able-bodied subjects only, please. v  I don't have a safe word. v  Collaring comes only to those who wait.

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