Collarspace

Updated October, 2019 and much more to come...

After many years together, my previous partner (Harper Cox as she went by on fetlife) and I decided on a major change in our respective lives and lifestyles. She moved on to join the LGBTQ community identifying as queer and wanting a community of very outgoing, comfortably gay friends and lovers. I, however, wished to remain and move further into the creative and adventurous paths of the BDSM and alternative adult lifestyle community of kinksters and fetishists. Whereas this profile was our joint profile last year in looking for fun dates, this is now the profile for me alone - an attractive, experienced, quality kinkster who is seriously seeking an explicitly sexual partnership and variation of a Ds dynamic. Im a Communication and Media Professor by trade, and I both study and live alternative sexual lifestyles. Ive given talks and led BDSM classes at KinkyCon, hosted munches and large scale kink parties, and much more. I am romantic to my core, seriously inclined toward a genuine and emotionally fulfilling partnership, and ambitious in my question to search far and wide for the right person. In similar fashion I also consider myself incredibly open minded, experimental, and open ended about what the best situation and fit for me might be. I am again putting myself out there with quite an open mind...

I will continue to update this profile by changing photos, adding layers of deions, and fine tuning what I am looking for. That said, I am open to dating and certainly corresponding in order to hear from someone whod like to be in touch. I have connected with several people on here in years past and have had some amazing relationships, both short term and long term. Id love to hear from you so please do not hesitate to say hi.

thedomlygent is my handle on fetlife. Im also not far from both Boston and New York City and get to those cities from time to time, and I have been known to purchase a plane or train ticket for someone to come and spend a weekend date here in the Ocean State...

Til next time...

- N