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Hi. Welcome to my profile.



Its been over 20 years since I first put my very first girl over my lap and spanked her. The memory is still clear and vivid, more so than any other sexual first .Ive never been in anything but Ds relationships since then. Even though I barely knew what the terms meant when I started off.Im a bit older , wiser and grayer now but still sometimes a goofy kid at heart.

While youre here, lets hit on some key things about me..

I read a lot. My readings range from the columns of Nicholas Kristof and Paul Krugman to nerdy science fiction and fantasy (Asimov to GRRM) to the writings of the Dalai Lama and Robert Pirsig to the latest banal garbage on bdsmlibrary.

I believe in a God and I consider my belief a safe bet (Wiki Pascals Wager). I do not believe in religion. If youre strongly strongly religious and your life centers around your faith, odds are we wont have much common ground.

Ive done some research in other computer science and statistical areas such as computational genomics , applying machine learning algorithms to the human genome.

I find math and mozart equally beautiful )

Personally, Ican be very very intense and passionate at times, specially about stuff i really believe in...I wear my heart on my sleeve and trust people. Its gotten me hurt plenty but I chug along )

BDSMwise, Im fairly relaxed about life and I dont really care for 247 protocol and uptime - Id like you to be a friend first. Mostly I can tell when I am in the place I need to be with someone the submissive and that she feels in the right place.

I am interested in bdsm primarily because of the intensity and the power dynamic that relationships of any kind based on ds offer. Chemistry, yes thats the word. It feels right. Im also a dark evil sadistic bastard who loves to see you bruised and crying and degraded. Most of the folk Ive bruised the most have told me Im very kind though.



PS.

I notice a lot of folks are very specific about monogamouspoly preferences these days. While I never started life intending to be one way or the other, the way my experiences have gone so far has shown that Im generally poly when it comes to being a dom. However I dont equate poly to be the same as lacking integrity or honesty. Im open about who I am intimate with with everyone and I feel doing anything without the full awareness and consent of everyone involved would require a total void of integrity.



PPS Since my country is really depressingly polarized lately, I should throw out that Im probably not going to get along well with the most devoteddedicated of the fans for the previous miserable excuse of a president (45). Not so much an issue of political ideology since I believe we all have beliefs that cant be neatly put into liberalconservative boxes as much as about values of tolerance and an appreciation of basic science and facts that I hold. In short - no MAGA-ers, Q-anoners or such that would cause my patriotism to provoke me into futile arguments.



Obligatory Philosophical Quote.

Hold fast to dreams

For if dreams die

Life is a broken-winged birdThat cannot fly.Dreams - Langston Hughes

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caridad
 
 Age: 28
 Alliance, Ohio