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I am not into casual encounters or one night stands. I am looking for more than sex, which means I am looking for someone I would actually like to spend time with, and who would want to spend time with me. Actually, I get to know a girl before I will start thinking if we are compatable. If you are looking to hook up quickly, I am not a good match for you. In addition, we should be close enough that we can actually drive to see each other - if you are half-way across the country from me, I am not your Daddy. I will be happy to chat and get to know you but that is as far as it could go.
I am looking for someone I find attractive inside and out, and finds me likewise. Someone who will respect me, and have my respect as well. Someone with whom we can explore our interests, sexual and otherwise.
If this doesn't make sense to you, that is alright. If it does, then perhaps we would be good companions on this journey together. I look forward to meeting people, making friends, and perhaps more.
To everyone, good luck with your search.
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Ahhh, the double edged sword that is CM. On the one hand, it lets you know that there are others around that have similar interests, and make connections. On the other, it seems that those who want what I have to offer, and have what I desire, are so far away that there is little chance of meeting. And, for what I want, actually meeting her is needed. |
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May everyone have a Merry Christmas, & may you be on the naughty or nice list (as you want). |
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This is going to be a good year - I can feel it! |
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Have a happy new years, everyone. May it be filled with more smiles and laughter and fewer tears. |
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Aaarghh! My computer won't be done until next week! |
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I saw this in a journal, and I'll paraphrase it: 'This isn't about what the dom wants. It is about what the girl wants to do because she respects her dom and wants to please him.' That is a good statement for how I look at it. |
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A week and a half of no computer! I am going through withdrawl. I am glad I got a phone that can do some internet, but it isn't the same. Hopefully early in the week I can get it back. |
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I wish everyone a wonderful Christmas. |
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I watched Princess Bride again fir the first time in many years last night. What a classic movie! |
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Getting lots of snow, and took my kids sledding yesterday. It was alot of fun, much laughter and I thought, this would be nice to share.
I smiled as I imagined my girl coming with us to go sledding and play in the snow. When we get cold, we go inside and warm up with hot chocolate.
Soon, it is bedtime for my kids, and we go through the bedtime rituals, reading books and tucking in.
After they have been put to bed, my girl and I would go to the living room, and enjoy each other by the fireplace. Then it would be time for me to tuck her in and for us to curl up in bed.
I still hope to find the girl that this appeals to. |
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Balance
I am young enough that I really enjoy sex and want it alot.
I am old enough to have outside responsibilities and to know that I want more than just a sexual relationship.
I have kink interests and vanilla interests. To truly be who I am, I need to explore both.
I have things that I want, and things that I need, with only a finite amount of time and energy (and money) to try and satisfy those wants and needs.
When I am in a relationship, I also need to consider her wants and needs.
I have children, who obviously take alot of time and energy, which I gladly give. But to be the father I want to be, I also need to take time for me.
All of these, and so many other aspects of my life, are a balancing act. It makes me think of something my yoga teacher said. We don't practice statue yoga - we constantly make little adjustments to try and keep balance. Sometimes we lose the pose, but we just try it again.
Likewise, these other balancing acts are a matter of making constant adjustments. Sometimes I stay in balance, other times I lose my balance and have to try again.
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Remember remember the fifth of November,
the gunpowder treason and plot.
I know of no reason
the gunpowder treason
should ever be forgot. |
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As I was thinking about a discussion I was having with a girl, an interesting thought occured to me. PDS. Public display of submission. Just as there are many different flavors of D/s, there are many types of PDS. Some are very overt - collars and leashes. Others are more subtle. It started me on an interesting train of thought. |
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I have read some profiles of girls who say that they want a man who will take what he wants. To me that is strange, it is not how I look at things. I am a Dom. I am not a specific girl’s Dom until two things happen: 1) she specifically gives me authority over her and 2) I accept the authority and responsibility for her. I am also selfish in that I want to be the only Dom who has authority over her.
I have no interest in keeping a girl in a house/cage or whatever 24/7. I don’t want to keep a girl from the world – I want to share it with her and explore it with her.
Just because I am online, I am not going to lie about age/gender/etc. I don’t do that in person, why would I do that online? Even if it is online, people do have emotions and do not like being lied to. I know I don't, so I don't do that to others. Apparently, that is a radical idea. |
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| Age: 33 |
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Georgia |
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