I've been in a relationship with my Dominant girlfriend for over two years.  We are in love and very happy together. We're in an open relationship and she is fully aware that I use this site (she uses it as well).  I have been involved in D/s since I was a teenager.  I am a switch and looking to talk with others who are comfortable with this type of dynamic.  My love for BDSM is not something that will ever go away.  It isn't a "phase" I'm in and I'm very comfortable and accepting of this fact.  I've met a lot of interesting and cool people on this site and I look forward to meeting more.