a good place to start would be talking and getting to know each other first. Amazing how many say they want this and after the first day of messaging they seem to disappear or ignore you, seems they are only out for the thrill of that day. A real slave will know and at least say they are not interested or have other ideas or needs. Not every one has these thoughts or wants, sometimes people need to read to think about what could be in front of them, I do a lot lately, I have things that mean a lot to me and should realize this at times I think of other things. To every one out there looking things can be right in front of you whether you know it or not. Good luck to all in there search.
