First and foremost I need to state I am seeking a long term relationship. In todays real world I understand it’s difficult to live this Lifestyle 24/7 when there are families involved. So let me state that I am capable of having a vanilla relationship and maintain the BDSM to the privacy of our home.

I am looking for JUST the right sub. Impress Me...that's not an easy task but disappointment Me the first time and there won't be a second chance. Be honest...its the only way for Me to earn your trust. Be intelligent. I enjoy a sub who can converse adequately in any situation. Be prepared to learn, explore and push limits and most importantly...have fun. I seek a submissive with spunk. Never been a Lady who was into men with no backbones. Be yourself but know your place. Be prepared to learn and explore... I enjoy good conversations.  I am not fond of facial hair but will tolerate a well trimmed mustache. About me...I love strap-on play, ice and wax, light C&BT, bondage,  toys of all kinds and most of all I like a submissive who is willing to learn and grow. I don't play with strangers so take the time to get to know Me if you are willing to be Mine and all that entails. This isn't about kinky sex. This is about control. Mind control and body control. I am a firm believer that One must collar the mind first, the heart second, the soul third and the neck comes last. I adhere to SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL play at all times. If you have questions ask them. The only stupid question is the unasked one. 
I am 59 and with that comes over 25 years experience in this Lifestyle and I have enjoyed it immensely. I am no beauty queen in fact I am a full figured gal.  I am not a slob and tend to carry Myself well. Only serious subs need to apply. Don't bother dropping me a line telling me you'll be in town for a couple of days unless you realize that that couple of days will ONLY be spent getting acquainted. I am not interested in sex or YOUR needs unless they meet mine. I am looking for someone to get to know and eventually form a long term relationship with. I am not currently looking for a sissy or a cross dresser. I want a  man who is willing to spoil me but understands my sexual needs are high. YOU must be open minded, willing to learn and explore. On the vanilla side I am looking for someone to step up and work along side of me and build a future. I want a man who can provide for me in every sense of the word. I will NOT just jump in to something for the sake of having someone. I am NOT looking for a pretty boy with no job and no spine. The perfect man for me would love and pamper me, be financially stable and willing to take care of me. Someone who would know my needs even before I asked. This isn't any easy task and I've been looking for the right sub for several years. Don't get me wrong...I have played and several have served me over the years. Now I am looking for that last collar. My now and forever.