The vibe I am seeking is harmonious obedience.  If there is a little brat in you that accepts punishment and generally tries to be a "good girl", I am ok with that.  What I cannot accept is a constant willful challenge.  This harmonious obedience is enforced and encouraged with rituals.  These rituals will include elements of speech, household, and sexual service, as well as punishment for disobedience.  All are designed to reinforce, our acceptance of our own designed hierarchy.   This type of BDSM can only be practiced in a live 24/7 setting.  I am looking for people to start engaging in conversation with who want to pursue a similar vision.   

On the vanilla side, my software startup is my mistress. She demands long hours and is the focus of my life right now. You would dedicate yourself to making my life easier.  I live in Vegas, but spend time in NYC/NJ and New Orleans. I do not consider any place home, but all three as viable options for any time in my life. I have a lot of flexibility due to my talent and experience. Right now, I am in Las Vegas. Any sane person who wanted to experience this intense nature of vulnerability and edginess in their relationship would need a trial run or two.