First and foremost, there will not be any approaching anyone here unless there is a question or strong interests. It has heard it from both sides that the Dominant should be the one that shows and reaches out first. Now think about it for a moment, in your service do you anticipate what you should do or just do what you are told? If you are not willing to show the interest than why should anyone reach out to you to show you that interest? Could it be that after all the years of searching that it was you that caused the loss of interest? Plain and simple establish interest, if you do not establish your interest and we must attempt to dig it out of you it will end quickly.

This is a couples profile, but not the type that is capable of showing what type of couple in this situation. Only one will respond most of the time, the others will let you know if they are speaking. There is a Man, a wife that is submissive and a slave. If you are looking to be a girlfriend, be a wife or split us apart look somewhere else, we are not interested. There is no equal's here, if you believe that, that is great for you but not believed here. Each has earned their place from several years of vetting, training and service in different ways. No one will just walk in and think they are equal in this household. We are more than happy to help guide you if you are serious. If you are writing us wanting friendship, be upfront and honest about it. If you are hoping for more but want to take your time again be upfront and honest about it do not beat around the bush. 

We are picky for we want to make sure that everyone is on the same page, just be honest with us as we will be blunt and honest with you. Its not the Dominant's place to serve your needs or wants its your place to serve the needs and wants. If you believe this is more your cup of tea, then we would enjoy speaking with you.

Side note; I am what is called a sadistic sadist with strong beliefs in the patriarchy. If words such as inferior, etc... offend you than do not send a message. However, if there is strong belief in the same words than would enjoy a message.