I am 1/2 of an s/s couple. I (and possibly we) are looking to serve a female disciplinarian in a FLR, or a female-led couple. Possibly open to serving a male but only if the male was equally interested in both of us. No interest in prodommes - i am a service submissive; i love to serve because it pleases my partner, and i would wish my partner would have no other motivation than Her pleasure. i believe i'm a masochist but not a painslut - ie i don't like pain but would gratefully submit to it knowing that its infliction brought Her pleasure. i am not a crossdresser or a sissy - just a man who wants to be led by the balls by a dominant woman. i am also a well-educated man who is interested in a variety of non-BDSM topics, and i love art, music, museums, etc. Thus i hope that the Domme i may find would appeal to my mind as well as my kink.

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