Collarspace

Not trying to be bossy but I want these few items upfront, to save time for everyone.

Distance is a factor. I am looking for someone local-- 15 miles, but DC would make me happiest. I know that seems small but DC traffic sucks
If you are married but looking for a sub or already have a sub and are looking for a second, I am not the person for you. I was the sub to a married man for 5 years and the two of them are still wonderful friends but I want to be the first and probably only (or the only LTR, I am open to openness with respect).
If you are looking for me to talk dirty to you for the evening so you can get your rocks off, that is not me either.
Just because you identify as a dom and are talking to me does not mean you are my dom and get to order me around.
I am really seeking someone 36-47. Might be willing to make small exceptions on the upper end.

If you are still with me, About Me
I am shy and do not speak much at first. Once I feel comfortable, you will probably wish I would go back to shy. I can be funny and sarcastic. I am rarely irrational. If I am ever being irrational, try feeding me or putting your cock in my mouth.I am terrified of looking stupid. Sometimes it is paralyzing.While I identify as a sub, I consider myself something--a blend of naivete, defiance, brattiness, shyness. Ask and I will explain.I like doing our thing but I also like to do normal things with my dom.I am looking for friends and an eventual LTR.
What I am looking for

Honesty and trust are paramount.I am looking for someone local-- 15 miles, 20 at the most, but DC would make me happiest. I know that seems small but DC traffic sucks.I really like the daddy dom, rather than the Master dom. Daddy Doms are a bit more patient, bit more loving, at least in my experience. However, i do not mind Master making an appearance for an evening.I need someone who will understand I am shy. I do get nervous. I need someone who trusts me and I trust, so they can push me out of my comfort zone. I dont really believe in safe words because I trust my dom to keep me safe and I trust my dom to be able to read me and know when I am truly uncomfortable or when I am just nervousshy.I need someone who knows I am going to ask questions sometimes rather than just obey. I understand it gets me in trouble sometimes.I need someone who can talk dirty and nerdy to me. Someone who will be patient about my gag reflex. Someone who will snuggle with me and tell me I am a good girl. Someone who will titty fuck me. Someone who will reassure me or kindly correct me when doing something for the first time.I also need someone who knows at times I need to introvert and be alone.I would love someone who knows how to cook because I am terrible at it. Once I almost burned down my apartment cooking rice. I definitely burned the pot.If you are looking for a service oriented sub who will clean your house out of the happy pleasure of her heart, that is not me.