Recently divorced from a mostly vanilla and looking to start re exploring the kinkier side of me that has been forced to lie dormant.
I am a self employed contractor, I have no problem traveling within the state or just over the border into Pennsy.
Generally laid back in public. I like to laugh and have fun and make others laugh as well with my often dry and sometimes twisted sense of humor.
I dont feel the need, or the desire to be ogre Dom all the time. I do not think that being a Dom/top doesnt mean you HAVE to be a hard assed asshole all the time unless the situation and/or play requires it.
Looking for submissive/bottom female friends and lovers for play, or a relationship as the situation dictates. While at some point I would like a LTR. Just leaving a relationship its not what I am looking to intentionally immediately jump into. If it happens, Great!. If not. Well thats ok too. Cant have too many friends. That being the case, I am open to the married and just wanting to play, or looking to explore lady too. After all. I am looking to explore too! That is kinda the point. Yes I can be discrete if that is what you need.
How mild or wild I am depends largely on what you want and are into, what your limits are and what you are looking for. From light bondage, and sensual torture, to pain. If it isnt what you want. Its not what I want. Not really into drawing blood or severe beatings. Please. Dont call me "daddy" Not my scene. Just feels weird to me. The only one I want calling me daddy is my daughter.
Lastly. Im 62. I no longer have the body of Adonis LOL. While I am told I am very attractive. I know myself I have a bit of a gut that I aqquired when I quit smoking 8 years ago and havent been able to completely rid myself of. But Im not HUGE.
While I am not into the very large BBW, I dont expect the perfect body either. Some extra pounds is ok.
Kinda gunshy right now just coming out of a LTR that didnt end on the most friendly terms (divorces often dont). So if I sound interesting. Please feel free to reach out even if I dont reach out to you first. I dont mind a little assertiveness on your part. I also may have just simply overlooked you.
If not, and you decide to pass me by. No matter who you are, I wish you nothing but the best of luck in your life search and adventure.