I am quiet, intense, intuitive, intellectual, and reflective. I enjoy passion and intensity in many of its s. I revel in bringing forth that chaotic sexual energy in women who seek to connect with deeply seeded desires and lusts that they know reside within them, but feel unable to access by themselves. I also have a deliciously dry and witty sense of humor. I am quick witted and find that I bond best with those who embrace their cerebral cores and have a similarly razor sharp mind.
I know that sexual energy is an incredible motivator and teacher, a primal life force able to change and stretch those who embrace its raw nature. One of my great joys is to establish a trust and intimacy with one for whom I can make a fundamental difference. I very much enjoy the relationships I have made with women who are shy and nervous as they begin exploring their submissive selves. I am principled and choose to dominate through the force of my character, not through physical violence. I am not a sadist, however I do find that discomfort, expertly administered, can help a submissive to explore her world more intensely.
I am a friend and lover
I value trust: To earn trust, I act with honor, openness, empathy and care. I expect the same of my partner.
I value communication: I promote open and honest communication. It is essential to ensure safety and but also to develop the bonds of trust that are so critical to D/s.
I am in control: I am in control of my own actions and reactions. I lead by example and in doing so I offer a range and depth of behavior that many only give lip service to.
I am demanding: I set high standards for myself as well as my partner. I am clear and consistent in my expectations. Rules, once agreed, are to be followed without question or complaint, and will be followed precisely.
My hand is firm: Discipline is a critical tool for growth and guidance. It is used to direct behavior and to reinforce expectations. Punishments are never used in anger or for my own pleasure and are fair and mutually agreed. Rewards are used to promote appropriate behavior. If pain is pleasurable it is a reward not a punishment.
I am a protector: Ensuring the physical, mental and emotional well being of my partner is essential to everything I do. Her protection and safety comes before anything. I will seek to build safe guards to ensure she is well protected, from me, from any third party or even from herself.
I am a guide: I eagerly lead my partner on a journey. Her self-discovery is important to me. Each rule and ritual binds us but also is designed to help her journey. I am honored to aid her growth.
