Its actually quite humerous how often we create this mental image as to what we are seeking. We are so sure of ourselves that we will hold to that picture even when the best thing in the world is standing right in front of us. That is why I have stated that due to our attention to such details, we can often find ourselves missing out on something very special simply because we are so focused on what we consider is a perfect fit that we miss out on that special person. Most of us have made this mistake in some form or another and have paid dearly for such blindness. However, it doesn't have to end that way - instead we can learn from our nearsightedness and begin to realize that our stance or opinon on some traits we hold dear will actually bend to and fro and they might even help us expand our view which will lead to an awesome resolution. KeithSir I loved this had to share ! |